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I think all people in general sometimes take compliments for more than they r. The same goes for criticisms.
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Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Hmm is this a double standard? What if you are not even the guy's type?

This is true. But Idk I just feel like it is more likely for a man to take the compliment as something more than it is for a woman because we are so used to it i guess. I could be wrong though. Im not trying to look like no thirsty ho out here either though.

Hmm.... let me ask my hubby how he feels when women compliment him.
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Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Hmm is this a double standard? What if you are not even the guy's type?

This is true. But Idk I just feel like it is more likely for a man to take the compliment as something more than it is for a woman because we are so used to it i guess. I could be wrong though. Im not trying to look like no thirsty ho out here either though.

Hmm.... let me ask my hubby how he feels when women compliment him.

Ohh yea I remember when me and my friend were walking into a grocery store, and this man walked by us. He smelled so goooooooooood, at the same time me and my friend told him that. He wasn't remeotely attractive to me, but that smell thoughTongue
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Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Hmm I just did this a couple of times. I usually do it to men that I know would like me. So I wouldn't get the side eye from an azzhole.LOL


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I know I'm not interested in them so maybe that's why I don't care about being side eyed. The men I've complimented have been gracious though. Sometimes overly so.
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Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:

I think all people in general sometimes take compliments for more than they r. The same goes for criticisms.

True, true, I usually think "dang, can they get off my jock. I know they wanna fugg me but danggg"CoolLOL
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Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

I don't really compliment random men.

I'll compliment them in class about something they did but that's it.

I don't know why random men, sounds so predatory to meLOL
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Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

I don't really compliment random men.

I'll compliment them in class about something they did but that's it.

I don't know why random men, sounds so predatory to meLOL
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Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:

I think all people in general sometimes take compliments for more than they r. The same goes for criticisms.


Yeah when I was younger I thought a man just opening up his mouth to say anything meant he was trying to holla. But as I matured I realized that sometimes they just want to give a sistah a genuine compliment and kim. 

Now that I think about it I did compliment a guy on his hair. He had neat dreads that were like twisted up into this cool style. He smiled and said thank you and I went about my business.
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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Hmm I just did this a couple of times. I usually do it to men that I know would like me. So I wouldn't get the side eye from an azzhole.LOL


funnyLOL

I know I'm not interested in them so maybe that's why I don't care about being side eyed. The men I've complimented have been gracious though. Sometimes overly so.


So what do you say? Nice suit? You have gotten a hair cut! I say that one and guys look at me like " is she hitting on me?"Geek  I look at them like " no, your hair has been looking a mess for weeks, this was just a nice way of me letting you know".LOL
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@petiteone, see that is the stuff that I like. Black people just being pleasant with each other, w/o any subliminal meaningsClap

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