I don't allow people to pop up announced and my husband is "well versed" in that policy of our home.
I am famous, you can pop up and I won't open that door. I don't pop up at people's house so don't pop up at mine and then plan to spend the night, neygro please.
If someone is spending the night it is planned in advance so I would plan that we would go to the pancake house or macdonalds/burger king, denny's .
It is cheaper to take a large group OUT TO EAT..... Then the time to cook ( you want scrambled, he don't eat eggs, I don't eat wheat bread, etc etc...then wash dishes, provide refreshments, coffee, juice for the kids, etc....just go to Denny's and call it a day.