| EPITOME wrote:|
well do you?
and what type of compliments?
are they about his looks?
his dack work?
his ability to bring home a paycheck?
im curious bc of this whole "strong/id need a man" black woman stereotype
And it's not like yesman compliments, as the Virgo in me has no problem telling him the truth whether it hurts or not, but if he's doing it and doing it and doing it well, I want him to know.
I want him to know so he can understand what I like, and to encourage him to keep it up.
I compliment it all, from what he's wearing, to wit, to voice, to eyes, to smile, to d*ck game, to ability to make me see God twice in one f*cking, to skills in the kitchen, etc.
But, as I said, if something's lacking, I will speak up about that too.
Can't enjoy the sunshine without a little rain sometimes.