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Ladycoils 
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 Posted: Feb 25 2013 at 7:08pm |
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Yes, I do! that is something I've had to work on over the years. But I see that it makes a big difference.
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GLAMAFROMNY
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Posted: Feb 25 2013 at 6:45pm |
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After reading all 11 pages when I get a man it seems like a necessity and not an option! Thanx for your story BB!
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Limalady
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Posted: Feb 25 2013 at 6:33pm |
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I loved that too. Thanks for sharing BB.  You are a great example of what marriage is, growing together, learning what the other needs, being there when they really need it.
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Posted: Feb 25 2013 at 6:24pm |
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always! Never been to prideful to compliment him
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sexyandfamous
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Posted: Feb 25 2013 at 6:14pm |
EPITOME wrote:
well do you?and what type of compliments? are they about his looks? his dack work? his ability to bring home a paycheck? his personality?
im curious bc of this whole "strong/id need a man" black woman stereotype |
If /when I had a boyfriend I would compliment him on his looks, his d!ck, how amazing he is in bed and how great he is as a person. The money thing isn't something I would compliment a guy on because I would be afraid he would misinterprets me and think I am interested in his money.
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afrokock
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Posted: Feb 25 2013 at 4:49pm |
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its the small things like these that make or break a relationship imho
grand gestures, not so much
Edited by afrokock - Feb 25 2013 at 4:50pm
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PurpleHaze
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Posted: Feb 25 2013 at 4:47pm |
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its amazing what some people see as a big deal,
how can you not compliment someone you're with?
in my culture, after you woman or man lays it down on you you have to give a shout out to them and go down the whole 'poem' where you thank his or her bloodline and totem |
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Honestly I realized how much I DIDN'T compliment my husband when he was diagnosed with Parkinson's a few years ago. Now I compliment him all the time bc it's so important to keep his morale high because his spirits get low pretty often. It's something I wish I had done more of earlier, because sometimes it seems like I'm overdoing it.
Get into the habit!
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Posted: Feb 25 2013 at 4:44pm |
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its amazing what some people see as a big deal,
how can you not compliment someone you're with?
in my culture, after you woman or man lays it down on you you have to give a shout out to them and go down the whole 'poem' where you thank his or her bloodline and totem
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