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    Posted: Mar 22 2013 at 6:55am
should be put away? In terms of becoming a productive member of society? Do you know or know of anyone who just seems to be a hopeless case and just thought that jail is the only place for them?

I was out with some friends last night at a usual spot in the city, an otherwise  chill setting, just people  there wanting to have a good time. However this particular night there were a number of people from a ratchet part of the town I grew up in and I just knew there was gonna be trouble Sleepy

And lo and behold 5 or 6 fights broke out, one of which I recognized a guy who was thrown out by security. We went to high school together and he was a couple years my junior and I had a flash back to a time I was walking down the hallway in school and this kid was pacing the halls all swole up and several of the black male teachers and the school officer were attempting to calm him down. I dont recall what the event was that caused this but he was acting very aggressively and disrespectful to people who were trying to help him. I just always remember him being in fights and always in trouble.

Last night when I saw him being carried out, I remember thinking "They just need to lock him up and keep him there." I was a little shocked at my own thoughts, I've never thought that about anyone until last night. This kid just seemed like a hopeless case to me, he's just unruly and out of control with no respect for authority of any kind, not even the black male techers from high school who I know have tried working with him. Things like this make me very sad Unhappy

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Mental illness and other mental issues are real and he needs help and love. Not the key thrown at him. That's the american way just sweep everything under a rug instead of being an empathetic human being and actually show compassion and help the person reach their true potential.
 
 
So no, I do not think people are beyond help, but those who like to cast judgement all the time probably they are.
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*chews gum* I'll just sit this one out
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2 hours later and only 1 real response? I smell trouble brewing
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some people are beyond help unfortunately
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


some people are beyond help unfortunately
 
That can be said about a lot of people.
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Some ppl want "street cred" & the reputation if "popping some ish off." In their social circle it's admirable.Being a "productive member of society" is for coons.
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If they actually tried to rehabilitate people I would agree with u. Since that's not the case, no. The only people who I think need to b locked anywhere for life is child predators.

Imma bleeding heart liberal though.
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I believe in something called the subconscious it's where all your beliefs, memories, and ideas about the world are.
 
I think if a person has a traumatic memory, or some bad event that happened to them then they would be beyond help simply because society hasn't invented a technology to erase their conscious of it.
 
 
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Or there are techniques and the person understanding breaking bad habits is the key. You ladies severly lack understanding how powerful the human mind can be when put to good use. Watch Athene's theory and the scientific break down of the mind on youtube.
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