Do you believe bullying is rampant on BHM?

I just remembered 4bthicknezzz...yeah, that was dirty.  i participated in that and i feel kind of bad about it.  she got clowned on both forums she was on.  all she did was ask advice about how to make money and becoming a stripper and that was that.  

that thread with ritle and the golden shoes get closed down? im looking for it.

I have something to say about beauty4cheerr.  Actually, she was NOT being bullied.  She was throwing it hard, and she threw punches before the "monkey" comment was made.  If you go around on a forum and start calling people "f*cking idiots," then you really can't cry foul when they start going in on you.

She was dishing it out just as much as she was taking it. 

Thread is here:

http://forum.blackhairmedia.com/arjunununu-hair-gone-wrOng_topic317348_page1.html

77 pages of pure old fashioned fukkery if anyone is interested.

The original thread was about a bad purchase from arjuju and folks (myself included, as per usual) not just about how crappy the company was, but how the situation could have been avoided had the person done their research.  As per usual, the discussion blew up and feelings were hurt.

TokyoRose wrote: I have something to say about beauty4cheerr.  Actually, she was NOT being bullied.  She was throwing it hard, and she threw punches before the "monkey" comment was made.  If you go around on a forum and start calling people "f*cking idiots," then you really can't cry foul when they start going in on you. She was dishing it out just as much as she was taking it.  Thread is here: http://forum.blackhairmedia.com/arjunununu-hair-gone-wrOng_topic317348_page1.html 77 pages of pure old fashioned fukkery if anyone is interested. The original thread was about a bad purchase from arjuju and folks (myself included, as per usual) not just about how crappy the company was, but how the situation could have been avoided had the person done their research.  As per usual, the discussion blew up and feelings were hurt.

well i think some of yall handled it maturely others went in on that girl... but i do remember you trying to tell her to leave arucoochie alone, but it didn't come off so sweet at first.. but she did react unnecessarily rude..

I read some of that thread just now...so who ended up calling her a monkey? I can't see how that would be ok in any circumstance on a website so hell bent on everyone in the outside world making statements like that...

I think a lot of y'all get real wild when arjukoo threads are live and poppin...it's like it summons something deep inside. Disclaimer: didn't read the whole thread but all I saw her do was defend the op.