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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I know some shuckers and ppl who light up in the prescence of white ppl.
Like its an honor or something.
I also know some ppl who thnk having a white boyfriend means like they won a prize.
It's pathetic .


word to boyfriend/husband tags on YT
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i have no problem with whites and they are useful for various things.
i guess if i counted my mixed race ls's i would have more
i am entering a field where i am the minority and have no problem interacting with old, awkward white males and white women.  i can find common ground. and i can genuinely like these people lol.
i am sure if i go to B school, i will have more white friends
i miss whites for certain things, like efficiency
i am enjoying my time of seeing them at infrequent intervals however.



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Some of my professors and I have discussed this .
There is power in being a minority and if you work it right you can flex it.

Was interesting
But in general yt ppl aren't a group of ppl I like to hang with.
You'd be surprised how pervasive and deep their kinda thinking goes.

I know a couple cool ones but I don't bother picking through the rubble

I do tend to love my professors, I've only had one black one

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Depends on the person. 
I'll be here all day trying to explain cultural appropriation and white privilege.
I am starting to get some bass in my voice.

It truly depends on the setting. Overall, I'm cool with everyone.
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Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I know some shuckers and ppl who light up in the prescence of white ppl.
Like its an honor or something.
I also know some ppl who thnk having a white boyfriend means like they won a prize.
It's pathetic .


word to boyfriend/husband tags on YT
some of those guys be Sick
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Originally posted by newdiva1 newdiva1 wrote:

Am I rude as hell and tell em how they are the devil and how I am 6 ether and therefore a god and things of that nature? no.  Do I coon at work or on the street? no.  I deal with my white associates like I deal with anyone else.  I have had to call folks out on their biases but I don't get into like that at my place of employment.   In my personal life....I do straighten them out when they try to compare my being black to their being white and gay.


Angry I am sooo tired of that! it is NOT THE SAME THING!!

...but that is another thread entirely.
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Originally posted by Alias_Avi Alias_Avi wrote:

I want to know why so many Black women melt like butter whenever they get around White women MEN Stern Smile

The ladies of RHOA are one prime example of this


These women look so desperate in wanting a White "girlfriend"

And i also don't understand how some BHM Black women (like chescaleigh) can encounter so many problems hanging around White people and yet still want to be BFFs with them and date them

Ohh the many questions I have lol

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@ LB, there are similarites as well as differences.
 
Make the thread Ladybird
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Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

sometimes im actually thinking whitey when im smiling

wait...so you expect ppl who shuck and jive to come on here and say what?


That is sooo me. At work I'll smile and offer a beverage or whatever all the while I'm thinking, "may I help you Cracker McCrack face" LOL I have to be careful not to let my thoughts slip and speak what I'm thinking. 

Other than that, I treat everyone the same. I call out bullsh*t regardless of whose ass its coming from...depending on my mood of course. 
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I have like....a handful of yt folks on my facebook page. And they all happened to grow up and live among black folk. Whenever I have went off the handle about em they usually pop up and cosign with me. lol

I tend to ignore em. But I definitely have shown my militancy in the real world.

My boo entire page is chock full of yt's. He works for the fire department. Naturally they tend to mingle after work. I can't even BEGIN to tell y'all how many times my boo has shut sh*t down on his page.

He has at least 50 yt fb friends. He always posts hot topics that resonate with the community. And yes, we've had some incredibly heated debates with his yt fb friends. 

Laaaaawd....if I weren't tryna get to bed early I would grab a screenshot of a few gems.

I'm really proud of him for always being true to himself. Heart I might have to fix that man a plate tonightStern Smile
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