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reminds me of this


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Originally posted by femmefatale85 femmefatale85 wrote:

Originally posted by KhadiNiaomi KhadiNiaomi wrote:

I know it starts with doing stuff for urself first, I mean, I believe when u look good u feel good and u have this confidence about urself. When u think u look unattractive u bad and ur self-esteem if shot down. Have u guys ever felt like when u look unattractive "Oooh lawd of mercy if he saw me like this he probably reconsider this relationship?" lol
 

No. You answered your own question. That has to do with self esteem. I don't think the only thing I bring to my relationship is my looks. 

Maybe it's because I'm older or maybe it's because of how I was raised, but I know my worth isn't how I look everyday.
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Im not answering my own question, I am asking you all if you guys feel this way. Im not gonna sit here and deny that when I feel unattractive I don't want my SO to see me, the point is to see if u guys feel the same as well.
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Originally posted by Lhdc2011 Lhdc2011 wrote:


Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by Spokenword Spokenword wrote:


well, there are women on here who don't want their man to see them without weave, some without makeup or both.

so.......



and yet no one will admit to doing something (like looking good for their s.o)




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sheeeit, you took up the gym and everything

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Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

reminds me of this




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i only care about looking good for an s/o if he makes an effort to look good
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I like looking extra nice for my SO but I LOVE looking nice for ME.
He compliments me more when I don't have make-up on and my wig off. He doesn't just say it, he shows it. He kisses me, touches me and does lewd and lascivious thangs to me regardless if I've filled in my brows or not.
 
However, I feel better/sexier when I'm not bummy. I'm usually more of an aggressor/initiator when I think I'm looking hawt.
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by Lhdc2011 Lhdc2011 wrote:


Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by Spokenword Spokenword wrote:


well, there are women on here who don't want their man to see them without weave, some without makeup or both.

so.......



and yet no one will admit to doing something (like looking good for their s.o)




LOL
sheeeit, you took up the gym and everything


I always wanted to though lol...She motivated me, but you aint neva lied Approve
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Originally posted by *Belle*Femme* *Belle*Femme* wrote:

i like looking good for my S.O.

and i also like looking great for myself. he doesn't really----well when i think i look crazy he thinks i look fine. women are harder on themselves then they need to be 


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Nope. It's quite freeing.
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I sure as hell do. Its fun to dress up for him and keep it new. It keeps him trying too.

But I can go basic, no make up, hair in a bun, hoodie and jordans and get just as much play.
 
Once you have a full convo while on the toilet....it's pretty much a done deal.
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