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melikey
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 11:02am |
reminds me of this
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KhadiNiaomi
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 11:05am |
femmefatale85 wrote:
KhadiNiaomi wrote:
I know it starts with doing stuff for urself first, I mean, I believe when u look good u feel good and u have this confidence about urself. When u think u look unattractive u bad and ur self-esteem if shot down. Have u guys ever felt like when u look unattractive "Oooh lawd of mercy if he saw me like this he probably reconsider this relationship?" lol |
No. You answered your own question. That has to do with self esteem. I don't think the only thing I bring to my relationship is my looks.
Maybe it's because I'm older or maybe it's because of how I was raised, but I know my worth isn't how I look everyday. < id="_npwlo" ="applicationpwlo" height="0"> |
Im not answering my own question, I am asking you all if you guys feel this way. Im not gonna sit here and deny that when I feel unattractive I don't want my SO to see me, the point is to see if u guys feel the same as well.
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afrokock
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 11:45am |
Lhdc2011 wrote:
afrokock wrote:
Spokenword wrote:
well, there are women on here who don't want their man to see them without weave, some without makeup or both.
so.......
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sheeeit, you took up the gym and everything
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afrokock
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lollypop036
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 12:47pm |
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i only care about looking good for an s/o if he makes an effort to look good
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Cream1970
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 12:48pm |
I like looking extra nice for my SO but I LOVE looking nice for ME. He compliments me more when I don't have make-up on and my wig off. He doesn't just say it, he shows it. He kisses me, touches me and does lewd and lascivious thangs to me regardless if I've filled in my brows or not. However, I feel better/sexier when I'm not bummy. I'm usually more of an aggressor/initiator when I think I'm looking hawt.
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Lhdc2011
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 1:08pm |
afrokock wrote:
Lhdc2011 wrote:
afrokock wrote:
Spokenword wrote:
well, there are women on here who don't want their man to see them without weave, some without makeup or both.
so.......
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I always wanted to though lol...She motivated me, but you aint neva lied 
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EPITOME
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 1:10pm |
*Belle*Femme* wrote:
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and i also like looking great for myself. he doesn't really----well when i think i look crazy he thinks i look fine. women are harder on themselves then they need to be
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pattigurlatl
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 1:13pm |
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Nope. It's quite freeing.
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texasmami0117
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 1:18pm |
I sure as hell do. Its fun to dress up for him and keep it new. It keeps him trying too.
But I can go basic, no make up, hair in a bun, hoodie and jordans and get just as much play.
Once you have a full convo while on the toilet....it's pretty much a done deal.
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