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KhadiNiaomi
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Topic: Do u feel like u always want to look good... Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 9:47am |
Do you feel like you always want to look good for ur SO, so u cud impress them and entice them?
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femmefatale85
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 10:01am |
I try to look good for myself. He may not be around forever. But when we go out places, I look good for him.
And I'm not even referring to my hair and clothes. I really like looking good naked for myself; he just benefits from it.
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Lady ICE
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 10:04am |
nope. i have never tried to look good for anyone...they know from the start im not in the impressing business.
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KhadiNiaomi
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 10:07am |
I know it starts with doing stuff for urself first, I mean, I believe when u look good u feel good and u have this confidence about urself. When u think u look unattractive u bad and ur self-esteem if shot down. Have u guys ever felt like when u look unattractive "Oooh lawd of mercy if he saw me like this he probably reconsider this relationship?" lol
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babyk94
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 10:07am |
I like to look good in general, it just makes me happy
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femmefatale85
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 10:10am |
KhadiNiaomi wrote:
I know it starts with doing stuff for urself first, I mean, I believe when u look good u feel good and u have this confidence about urself. When u think u look unattractive u bad and ur self-esteem if shot down. Have u guys ever felt like when u look unattractive "Oooh lawd of mercy if he saw me like this he probably reconsider this relationship?" lol |
No. You answered your own question. That has to do with self esteem. I don't think the only thing I bring to my relationship is my looks.
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Lady ICE
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 10:10am |
KhadiNiaomi wrote:
I know it starts with doing stuff for urself first, I mean, I believe when u look good u feel good and u have this confidence about urself. When u think u look unattractive u bad and ur self-esteem if shot down. Have u guys ever felt like when u look unattractive "Oooh lawd of mercy if he saw me like this he probably reconsider this relationship?" lol | no...i cant relate to that at all. sorry op.
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babyk94
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 10:11am |
I don't want to sound concieted but, I think I look nice all the time with and without makeup and without my best outfits. My boyfriend has seen me plenty of times in my work uniform, messy hair, and barefaced.
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KhadiNiaomi
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 10:15am |
Right I look a hot mess with, my poofy hair, so I feel unattractive right now...
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maysay1
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 10:15am |
Awww you're such a teenager. You will learn trying to impress other people, men and women, with your looks, how well you dress, etc. is pointless and a waste of time. Impress yourself, accept compliments graciously, and ignore those who want you to change because they don't like something about you.
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