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Lhdc2011 
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 Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 1:08pm |
 afrokock wrote:
Lhdc2011 wrote:
afrokock wrote:
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well, there are women on here who don't want their man to see them without weave, some without makeup or both.
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and yet no one will admit to doing something (like looking good for their s.o)
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sheeeit, you took up the gym and everything
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I always wanted to though lol...She motivated me, but you aint neva lied 
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 12:48pm |
I like looking extra nice for my SO but I LOVE looking nice for ME. He compliments me more when I don't have make-up on and my wig off. He doesn't just say it, he shows it. He kisses me, touches me and does lewd and lascivious thangs to me regardless if I've filled in my brows or not. However, I feel better/sexier when I'm not bummy. I'm usually more of an aggressor/initiator when I think I'm looking hawt.
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 12:47pm |
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i only care about looking good for an s/o if he makes an effort to look good
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 11:45am |
Lhdc2011 wrote:
afrokock wrote:
Spokenword wrote:
well, there are women on here who don't want their man to see them without weave, some without makeup or both.
so.......
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and yet no one will admit to doing something (like looking good for their s.o)
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sheeeit, you took up the gym and everything
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 11:05am |
femmefatale85 wrote:
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I know it starts with doing stuff for urself first, I mean, I believe when u look good u feel good and u have this confidence about urself. When u think u look unattractive u bad and ur self-esteem if shot down. Have u guys ever felt like when u look unattractive "Oooh lawd of mercy if he saw me like this he probably reconsider this relationship?" lol |
No. You answered your own question. That has to do with self esteem. I don't think the only thing I bring to my relationship is my looks.
Maybe it's because I'm older or maybe it's because of how I was raised, but I know my worth isn't how I look everyday. < id="_npwlo" ="applicationpwlo" height="0"> |
Im not answering my own question, I am asking you all if you guys feel this way. Im not gonna sit here and deny that when I feel unattractive I don't want my SO to see me, the point is to see if u guys feel the same as well.
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 11:02am |
reminds me of this
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Lhdc2011
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 10:57am |
afrokock wrote:
Spokenword wrote:
well, there are women on here who don't want their man to see them without weave, some without makeup or both.
so.......
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and yet no one will admit to doing something (like looking good for their s.o)
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 10:56am |
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Having a 1/2 inch of new growth is making you feel "unattractive" and you think you look like a "lion" because it's "dramatically poofy".
Lawd.
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 10:55am |
Like others' said, I like to appear nice for myself. There's no doubt that looking nice to someone has it's little perks in general, but it is important that if no one else does, my spouse finds me attractive (that's part of the purpose for being together).
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