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Becky
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Posted: Dec 21 2012 at 10:04am |
A man will cheat ... based on his 'options'. Some men .. have a LOT of options and some men ... have very few. I don't think it has anything to do with not loving their wives though. In truth ... the human male was not designed for monogamy - this is a cultural construct only. In nature though a male should have many wives. (No, I would not be able to tolerate this either. I am just saying that .... biologically men should have many wives. ) Think about it. If a man has sex with 50 women on a regular basis ... how children will be produced within 1 year? Um maybe 30 or so.  But if a WOMAN takes 50 lovers .. how many children will be produced within a year? Ahhh 1.  It's called 'survival of the species'. Really .. this is why men cheat. (Women cheat for other reasons)
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Majesty02
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Posted: Dec 22 2012 at 3:49pm |
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To be honest I think 80% men cheat in some type of way in their relationships. Especially attractive men, they usually have several women throwin the pum pum at them all the time. The average man will break down eventually.
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DarkestBeauty
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Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 12:56pm |
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The majority of men cheat not all but the majority especially with co-workers....
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Midna
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Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 2:25pm |
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I think the majority of men cheat because society enables them to. Infidelity and dishonesty in relationships is so widespread because dudes are conditioned to feel entitled to sex.
It's gotten to a point where they now try to say it's human nature and men need to betray their partners to continue the human race or it's in their instinct.
I call this bullshit. The thing about evolution and multiple partners is that it is used to continue a species against the odds. The human race is clearly not in danger and clearly does not have an enemy that benefits off its death. In other words, we're at the top and we don't have any species that could bring us down as a whole.
Humans are one of the very few species that have sex for pleasure. Most other species do it to continue their species in a world filled with predators looking to be the end for them. But we do not have to worry about that and can afford to have sex for pleasure. Because of this lack of predatory danger and ability to have sex for pleasure, there is a fuckton of us to the point where our numbers are now invading on the numbers of other species and making them dwindle as a result.
So when I hear that cheating is done as some evolutionary trait, I laugh because it's clearly an excuse. We are not the more primitive animals some try to say we are when it comes to sex because our brains are far more advanced than all other species. When people say things like that, they essentially want to absolve themselves of the responsibility of themselves. It's easier to blame other things for one's own actions, isn't it?
It's funny because even though animals are far less advanced than humans, there are actually monogamous species out there in a world where their own existence is endangered due to predators of all species.
Now if you're single, go get aaaall the sex you want. That's on you. But I do not support the idea that cheating is supposed to be accepted in a relationship with monogamous terms. There is no evolutionary trait in betraying and deceiving the partner you are supposed to trust and hold in higher regard. If you want that kind of conduct in a relationship, it's better you just get an open relationship where both parties understand that sex is a free for all in the relationship.
If the partner doesn't agree to those terms, onto the next one. But it is far better than lying and deceiving someone to get your jollies.
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nanaly
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Posted: Jan 22 2013 at 5:47pm |
Midna wrote:
Anybody can cheat, period. In the end, it's all up to them, no matter how much they try to blame someone else. If they weren't raped, they cheated.
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mtownchick
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PEOPLE will cheat if they desire to do so. Man or woman. Thy flesh is weak.
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MsLamie93
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I believe a lot of them do. I remember a colleague telling me he cheated on his girlfriend with one of her friends and quite a few other people. This guys was obese lol, I thought damn even the ones who aren't attractive have 'options' imagine what a man who constantly has women throwing themselves at him gets up to.
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Beauty620
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Posted: Feb 04 2013 at 11:24am |
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I believe any man can cheat, it's rare to find a man now & days that's faithful. Same goes for women...
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