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RT gave his stance on life... just cause of this thread Embarrassed
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In threads like this you have to otherwise ..."you're victim blaming and condoning violence blah blah blah blsh"

Someone is still gonna find fault with that post though ..

Wait for it
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

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People say don't "provoke" an ass whooping by hitting first whether it be a man or woman. However, I was shocked to see how many idiots were saying that Kenya Moore deserved to be punched and dragged across the floor in an evening gown by Porsche "underground railroad" Williams when Kenya NEVER touched her. People were really condoning that mess and trying to blame shift to find a way to victimize Porsche and remove the responsibility that was hers to exercise self-control. As long as people's minds continue to work in this way, violence will always be accepted. You can't tell people (women) it's okay to put the beat down on "Kenya" when she did not hit you, but then turn around and say but make sure you don't do this to a man if you are ever in a heated argument because he might kill yo ass. I mean, which is it??? #Contradictionmuch


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I wonder if the men who are so passionate about abuse against men are this passionate towards abuse against women. 

The way he dragged her out of the elevator, 100% unbothered, I have a HARD time believing that they didn't have a rowdy relationship prior to that incident. 


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Originally posted by phattrabbit phattrabbit wrote:

People say don't "provoke" an ass whooping by hitting first whether it be a man or woman. However, I was shocked to see how many idiots were saying that Kenya Moore deserved to be punched and dragged across the floor in an evening gown by Porsche "underground railroad" Williams when Kenya NEVER touched her. People were really condoning that mess and trying to blame shift to find a way to victimize Porsche and remove the responsibility that was hers to exercise self-control. As long as people's minds continue to work in this way, violence will always be accepted. You can't tell people (women) it's okay to put the beat down on "Kenya" when she did not hit you, but then turn around and say but make sure you don't do this to a man if you are ever in a heated argument because he might kill yo ass. I mean, which is it??? #Contradictionmuch




oh i condone SOME violence.  im glad Kenya got her ass dragged.
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Also, what does "provoke" mean here. If a woman can "provoke" a man into hitting her, than that means a woman can be provoked to hit a man, too. Right? 

If a dude hits a girl, she provoked him (always)....if a girl hits a dude...she's crazy, violent and ratchet.

There is a double standard on both sides of the coin. 









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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by phattrabbit phattrabbit wrote:

People say don't "provoke" an ass whooping by hitting first whether it be a man or woman. However, I was shocked to see how many idiots were saying that Kenya Moore deserved to be punched and dragged across the floor in an evening gown by Porsche "underground railroad" Williams when Kenya NEVER touched her. People were really condoning that mess and trying to blame shift to find a way to victimize Porsche and remove the responsibility that was hers to exercise self-control. As long as people's minds continue to work in this way, violence will always be accepted. You can't tell people (women) it's okay to put the beat down on "Kenya" when she did not hit you, but then turn around and say but make sure you don't do this to a man if you are ever in a heated argument because he might kill yo ass. I mean, which is it??? #Contradictionmuch




oh i condone SOME violence.  im glad Kenya got her ass dragged.


This has to be bc you just already didn't like Kenya for other reasons. Not bc she provoked it, no?
That I can understand. But people saying in that moment, sitting on the couch she provoked an ass whooping don't make sense to me.
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Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:



Hasn't jay z suffered enough?

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i still think some of you are confusing provocation with assault and battery.
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