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I have a friend that would get in her bf's face, get loud & aggressive then dare him to hit her.
He hit her every time. After hearing that same sad story for the 3rd time I had no advice to offer. 
All I could do was SMH, hug her, keep quiet & wait for the next story.

It truly is sad.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (6) Thanks(6)   Quote coconess Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 25 2014 at 10:35pm
id definitely tell a guy that i wish tf he would hit me. id get in his face and all that. 
well… it depends. i wouldnt get in my exes face.. but id tell him that if he ever hit me he better knock me unconscious.

i can be cray… i need to know if a guy would take it there with me ever. 
ill take a punch to dodge a future bullet. 

i think most guys would just end up walking away from me though. i think they know that im an arguer… dont do it. 

my ex walked away from me a few times or if he couldnt he would just drop me off
and he has a temper….
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You can provoke me to meet your maker if you hit me .
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote indiecat Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 25 2014 at 11:00pm
Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

I won't say you were provoking him but you have to take responsibility for the fact that you have a habit of picking terrible men....no shade.....


I agree, I have chosen awful men. this one, he presented himself as someone he was not. I was in the abusive cycle and that damn honeymoon phase.
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Its sad that this even has to be a discussion. Grown ups should know to keep their hands to themselves....men and women.
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Men ...they gotta know that if a woman is jumping in your face provoking you...daring you to hit them. It ain't cause they're gonna kick your ass. It's because they're daring you to catch a case when they call the cops on your ass.

Women gone act like they don't provoke some situations but I've seen different.

And just to be clear i'm speaking on a regular couple with an average argument that got out of hand. Not an abusive relationship where all it takes is you breathing as provocation.

and let me say it again for the folks who gone skim and not get errything...And just to be clear i'm speaking on a regular couple with an average argument that got out of hand. Not an abusive relationship where all it takes is you breathing as provocation.
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isnt blame inherent in the word provoke.
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Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

Its sad that this even has to be a discussion. Grown ups should know to keep their hands to themselves....men and women.

This is the first thing you learn in kindergarten. preschool
If you are with someone  who gets loud and in your face and dares you to hit them, think about your awful choice in mates. 
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