I think 'some' makeup is good for any woman.
If you wear alot of makeup - he will see it and yes he can only imagine how you will look the morning after.
But if you wear a moderate amount of makeup and it looks good on you - you will attract men because yes, men are visual creatures. They just are. Sure they KNOW that at some point you have to wash your face and yes, a lot of guys are turned in when you show them yourself totally natural. They are not stupid! Hee hee!
I think if you wear the level of makeup Oprah wears on TV and he sees your face with no makeup he will flip.This is because she wears HEAVY STAGE makeup.
But no, if you are bare faced and he likes girls that are dolled up ... he will never get the chance to meet you and see what a great gal you are and all your inner beauty. Now that's the way it is. Why do you think women wear makeup and men don't wear makeup. Women are trying to 'attract' a guy.
Men are visual ... period but all guys like different things. This will not change in your lifetime. Some guys want a BBW woman, some want a Heidi Klum kind of girl. A lot of guys just want a girl that shows she takes pride in her appearance and is 'polished' off and makeup does this. Don't overdo of course, because then it works in the opposite way!
I think you should get over the 'I don't like makeup' concept thingy .. it's for kids IMO.
But if makeup makes you feel that uncomfortable .. then don't wear it and meet the guys you meet without it. Period.
I WOULD NOT suggest that you 'bait and switch'. Like he meets you all dolled up and after he gets to know you ... you drop everything and go out without makeup etc. Nooo that will mess him up and he will be gone.
Guys are visual. They will see you a certain way initally .. and expect you to always look that way.. so you have to choose your look and stick with it. It don't 'bait and switch' on a guy.
Edited by Printer_Ink - May 04 2013 at 8:20am