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Originally posted by AriesBabe09 AriesBabe09 wrote:

Thanks for the feedback. I think I'm just gonna wait for his b-day. He has kids and I have a child so I would say christmas should just be for the kiddies.
I'm just gonna feel a tad bit shytty if he buys me something and I get him nothing.
What leads me to believe he might is because the other day he asked if I wore earrings. I'm not quite sure why he asked. Maybe he was just curious....idk.
 
But if he does get you a gift for xmas and you didn't get him one, you can make up for it when his bday comes.
 
Side bar: My boyfriend and I have only been together for two months and his birthday is on Dec. 8th and I bought a couple gifts and I'm planning a special night for him. Then xmas comes up and yet another time for gifts....then my birthday is in january....So I know how you feel about the gift-giving...
 
 
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Only reason I didn't want to ask if we'll be exchanging gifts is because I don't want to give him the impression that I was expecting something, when in fact I'm not.

I was also thinking I'll get a little stash gift and if he does give me something for christmas I'd already have something for him that way I won't look totally rude and selfish. If he doesn't get me anything then I can just give him the gift for his b-day....pretty much like you said BmorelySmile
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Originally posted by candies candies wrote:

I will find out if he's getting me something for Christmas first.

I've been in a relationship with someone for  nearly 3 mths and I'll be getting him a gift once he's getting me one.

I suppose at some point we'll ask each other what we both want for Christmas.



Exactly what I was thinking
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I have a whole new mindset about this now.  I was seeing someone.  we started seeing each other in January. His b'day came first (in August) and I got him a gift (nothing big). He liked it, seemed to appreciate it.  when my b'day rolled around in December, the joker forgot (grrrrr) and when I reminded him, he didn't even make up for it.  And stupid me goes on and gets him a Christmas present (again, nothing big), but this time, he did get me a Christmas gift.  I made the mistake of getting him a Christmas gift AFTER he forgot my birthday.  So I was just rewarding bad behavior.  Shame on me. 

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The Rule is simple: If he's done nothing FOR you--He should get nothing FROM you.
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