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    Posted: Nov 29 2009 at 2:13pm

.....for christmas? I been seeing him for three months and I'm not sure if I should be getting him something for christmas or if I should just get him something for his b-day which is beginning of January.

He is not my boyfriend but we have spent a significant amount of time around each other.
 
Would you guys/ladies expect someone you've been seeing for at least 3 months to get you a gift for the holidays?
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Well this all depends on how much you like him.

I would say just wait until his bday or you could get him a nice non expensive item for both days. Its hard to say since I'm not sure how serious and how much you feeling him.
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I will find out if he's getting me something for Christmas first.

I've been in a relationship with someone for  nearly 3 mths and I'll be getting him a gift once he's getting me one.

I suppose at some point we'll ask each other what we both want for Christmas.
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Originally posted by candies candies wrote:

I will find out if he's getting me something for Christmas first.

I've been in a relationship with someone for  nearly 3 mths and I'll be getting him a gift once he's getting me one.


I suppose at some point we'll ask each other what we both want for Christmas.
 
Thats what I was thinking too.
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Originally posted by itsacrazyworld itsacrazyworld wrote:

Well this all depends on how much you like him.

I would say just wait until his bday or you could get him a nice non expensive item for both days. Its hard to say since I'm not sure how serious and how much you feeling him.
 
He's cool. We've been spending a lot of time with each other. I was kinda feeling his b-day would be more appropriate.
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Does he buy you things now?  Does he take you out regularly and spend money on you now?  I'd be up front and discuss the exchanging of xmas gifts with him....and even both of you discuss a price range.....or go out together and buy each other gifts...so he picks out what he wants....and you pick out what you want....and he pays for yours...and you pay for his....
 
I say discuss the amount so its no hard feelings where one person spends 200.00 and the other person spends 50.00
 
 
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Originally posted by AriesBabe09 AriesBabe09 wrote:

Originally posted by itsacrazyworld itsacrazyworld wrote:

Well this all depends on how much you like him.

I would say just wait until his bday or you could get him a nice non expensive item for both days. Its hard to say since I'm not sure how serious and how much you feeling him.
 
He's cool. We've been spending a lot of time with each other. I was kinda feeling his b-day would be more appropriate.


yea, that's what I was thinking. You could get him something really basic for xmas, just something to show you are in the spirit, like a small stocking with some goodies in it. Then get him something a bit more personal for the bday.


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You should just ask if you guys are exchanging gifts for xmas? That way no one is left assuming that you were or you weren't....
 
 
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I agree with Bmore...just ask. I probably wouldn't spend a significant amount.
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Thanks for the feedback. I think I'm just gonna wait for his b-day. He has kids and I have a child so I would say christmas should just be for the kiddies.
I'm just gonna feel a tad bit shytty if he buys me something and I get him nothing.
What leads me to believe he might is because the other day he asked if I wore earrings. I'm not quite sure why he asked. Maybe he was just curious....idk.
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