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    Posted: Jan 19 2013 at 9:56am
I just typed a long post that got deleted. I will keep it short and mayb go into detail later. Long storty short husband got busted online tryin to meet up with some chic. We've been together over. 10 years and have 2 children together. He got defensive which of course added fuel to the fire. I am not feeling him anymore but it hurts. This is the man I thought id spend the rest of my life with. I am good with idea of moving on but can't help to wonder what life will be without him. We have a history of him creeping and I was alays the fool to take him back in fear some other girl would have him..now since I kno who he really is (although I've always known just been in denial) i feel like they can have him..hees jus gonna cheat anyway smh.

I have such a pure heart when it comes to being in a commited relationship tht I hope god blesses me with the man who is for me cause it ain't him

Any ladies who have been through a divorce and gottenfully over their ex husband please share your stories and feel free to send me a private message. I need all the encouragement I can get
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I'll comment on my situation but you have make a decision that's right for you, I've been married 17 yrs. I've been through everything in my marriage even counseling. I've learn that everyone makes mistakes and sometimes, the same mistake more than once. YOU have to find something good about your husband that will allow you to move pass his infidelities, and if you can truly forgive him and he's truly sorry then work from there. Ppl cheat men and women when it's something deeper going on within them, If resentment start to fester in your heart, then you'll have to leave. Sometimes separation is good, sometimes counseling is good too, he may have hidden issues that need to be discuss with a neutral person. Lastly don't allow anyone to make a decision for you about your marriage, your self esteem is what's important when dealing with affairs. If your feeling low about his infidelities and feeling bad about yourself, then if nothing else get counseling for YOU, heal and then make a ultimate decision for you.
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Thank you le-talya for your response.

Any other women who have been through it and healed please share your stories of inspiration
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