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Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

I'd like her FB status

yep. she will feel like a fool. probably spazz out and  post more nutty stuff, and then you will have a good reason to cut her off

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How you even know that was for you though??? If you feel some type of way step up and let a bitch know how you feel
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Originally posted by AmiliaCabral AmiliaCabral wrote:

How you even know that was for you though??? If you feel some type of way step up and let a bitch know how you feel

Basically. Jeesh.

I understand some people being "non-confrontational" but at the end of the day you're asking a group of people who don't know you or your friend personally how to handle this.  If you really want to address it, do so.  And if she "dropped" you and you didn't even try to explain your side then...you didn't really care that much.
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Im sorry but I missed the disrespect. someone point me in the right direction
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My sister just had to go ask her about the status. She said it wasn't about me and that she was just writing out her thoughts out Stern Smile. Well she wants to end a friendship over a trip to my college...I don't see the point in caring
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you said she wished she went to the same school as you did.. are you being bougie/brand new/ snooty (or can she perceive your attitude as that? She might think you are too cool for her and are ashamed of her or something of the sort. 

are you having more fun at school than she did during her time at school? might be scared you are going to toss her away for your new friends


(and you clearly don't give a damn with how nonchalant you seem about the situation)
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Im not seeing what the big deal is..mountain out of a mole hill...tbh


You sound like a Spartie...are u?
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Yes I did say that b/c it seems like all of a sudden she's this die hard football fan that had to go to my school celebrate the first home game or else...

But that was wrong to say. She's finished undergrad and now back home and probably she's having a hard time adjusting to the fact that everyone's either in school, working, or got kids.

Part of me feels if she wants to say it's done then fine, but logically that would be the stupidest reason to end a friendship..and i want to make decisions based on logic.

I'm calling her up later this week. I need to collect my thoughts and she need to cool down


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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Im not seeing what the big deal is..mountain out of a mole hill...tbh


You sound like a Spartie...are u?



I agree, I didn't know it was a big deal to say no, I'm busy.

I sound like a spartie?...Is that a bad thingOuch?...No I'm ramsey
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Originally posted by JeriMK55 JeriMK55 wrote:

Yes I did say that b/c it seems like all of a sudden she's this die hard football fan that had to go to my school celebrate the first home game or else...

But that was wrong to say. She's finished undergrad and now back home and probably she's having a hard time adjusting to the fact that everyone's either in school, working, or got kids.

Part of me feels if she wants to say it's done then fine, but logically that would be the stupidest reason to end a friendship..and i want to make decisions based on logic.

I'm calling her up later this week. I need to collect my thoughts and she need to cool down

This is what I was going to say. I almost guarantee she'll be talmbout getting her Masters soon. She misses school, and that's understandable because college is a lot of fun! However, she is not comprehending her feelings and is putting undue pressure on you and taking it out on you. Maybe if you want to save the relationship (taking a break sounds good though) you can just ask her to come up there and hang out. Like a day with you, have lunch on campus, go to the library, just basic stuff. She'll be down, I'm sure.
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