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welp. just don't text anything you will regret later. leave it be. move on. 
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I'd say, "I love u. With ur passive aggressive, Facebook subliminal shot takin ass lol: )"

I hate that.

*just read the thread. Then, I would send her a message asking "why she's acting out. What's really wrong? Why r u taking it out on me? We've been friends, and things have been fine, but now u wanna switch up? Talk to me, I'm here."

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Drop her....everyone is not meant to be friends their entire lives. 


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Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

Tell her to Join BHM I want to hear her side of the story. We haven't had one of those threads in a little while




This all day.
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Originally posted by dijah.love dijah.love wrote:

Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

Tell her to Join BHM I want to hear her side of the story. We haven't had one of those threads in a little while




This all day.

actually I change my mind. don't let go just yet. this is better cause we really don't know her POV. Do you really want to throw away a 9 years of friendship over facebook status? send her a link boo. don't let ur pride get in the way. 
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Thanks y'all for the advice! Some of these response LOL. Well I think will have to call/message her what's good...there clearly is some resentment for our friendship to end over a trip to my college after the first football game...like the semester just started...I'm the one who actually goes to the school and I'm not trippin over not going...

I can admit that I don't really care for going out to the clubs so the chances of me initiating that are low, although I'm willing to work on that. When my other friends ask me to go out and I'm free I do... Never once since she's been in the state has she text me to make plans to go to the club or downtown. So the first and only time I say no it's a wrap and my fault she never gets to go out? I wish people would stop waiting on others to do the things they want to do.


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Meh....eventually some friends outgrow each other....Kim, she's looking for reaction.....I hate FB
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A 9 year friendship is a long time to throw away. How close are you? Sometimes when people write crazy things on fb, they are really hurting and lost. She did call you a parasite so don't think I'm telling you to just let her sliiide, but ask her whats really going on. 
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Don't message. Call or even better, meet face to face.

Tell her everything that you said in this post. The fact that you have tried and it didn't work out. Now isn't the best time due to readjustment.

Then tell her you saw the facebook status and point blank ask her if it was about you. If so, then ask her if that is how she genuinely feels? Because if so there is no need for her to feel she is a host to a parasite. Friendships are not supposed to be draining and if she feels used then the  two of you can move on to more life-giving friendships and relationships. If this friendship has a lot of value to you and you have patience you may be able to discover the root of this and move on. Based on how she answers you'll know if there is any point investing anything further in your friendship.

But it seems as if you already have come to some sort of conclusion.



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Originally posted by goodm3 goodm3 wrote:

Drop her....everyone is not meant to be friends their entire lives. 
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