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    Posted: Oct 08 2009 at 9:25pm
another dirty-people-in-my-life-thread.

oprah's show today reminded me to make this thread:

my family members do not do a lot of things:

handwashing
throwing away sponges
changing sheets infrequently
washing towels never
dirty clothes on the floor
dishes in the sink with rotting food
trash spilling onto the floor
food crumbs on the floor and counter
pieces of hair everywhere



how do you confront this when it's in your own family? how do you tell a grown ass adult, "hey, you should wash your hands after pooping. maybe that's how you got the flu" or "hey, you should clean your hair off of the kitchen counter so it would be a clean place to make food" or "hey, trash does not belong on the floor, it belongs in the trashcan."

when i do say things, they react like i told them not to kill puppies. is there a specific way to word this where it will be received better? at this point, i'm afraid to be around them, because i fear for my health, and i'm starting to think that maybe they just don't mind being dirty.

i think being surrounded by dirty people throughout my life has made me a bit of a germaphobe.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 08 2009 at 9:27pm
I have a background in nursing, so I just can't tolerate it or be around it.  My aunt had a party and her kitchen was nasty, trash everywhere, dirty dishes, and we ate there and me and the kids got really sick.  After that, never again.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 08 2009 at 10:06pm
Can you be really raw with them?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 08 2009 at 10:10pm
kick them out or leave
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 08 2009 at 10:21pm
See, I don't care so much if a person is dirty in private.  If it spills over into any place I use, I take a green garbage bag and put all that nastiness in it and put it out for the garbage collector to come and get.  I will not go over someone's house that is a mess.  And this is coming from someone who used to be a bit messy herself. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 09 2009 at 1:40am
oh boy i know one Tired cleaning after


Edited by kelly - Oct 09 2009 at 1:40am
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 09 2009 at 2:00am
Whenever you see them doing or in the act of....just give them this look.....
 
 
They will ask you why you looking like that....just tell them...and go back to that look...
 
 
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 09 2009 at 2:01am
Girl, u can't change a persons mind

You'll be better going the reality tv route. Real talk. Submit entries on their behalf.

OR

U could  take pictures, make a anonymous myspace page (make sure it's public). Load the pictures and allow ALL comments. Forward them the link and make them feel ashamed!!!!!

Post photos of the entire house.

They need a reality check
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 09 2009 at 3:41am

My mom isn't dirty - in fact she's a clean freak. But she is a PACK RAT of note. She can't throw anything away - my brother's first bike (he's a young man of 20 now), my school uniform, old sewing machines, our rollerblades (hello 1995), home gym stuff, broken clocks...damn.

Everything is packed in boxes in the garage or the spare rooms. The 2 spare rooms could be good sized guest bedrooms if she got rid of that stuff. She even has boxes which were never opened, from when we moved into that house back in 2004. I've since moved out but everytime I got home I nag her about it. She said we can do what we want with the studd when shes dead (she's only 49) & until then, we'll thank her for it whenever someone "needs something."Shocked Mama, the day I need rollerblades, a VCR & that a My Little Pony backpack...I'll get at you.
 
I will watch this thread for advice. I can't help her. I may have inherited this problem too, with my hair products. I have loads of things I may never use, just piling up. I got some storage boxes & I'm on a use it up challenge...
 
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 09 2009 at 4:11am
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