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The aggressiveness of your mother .. the way she grabbed your hair and domminates you ... sounds abusive. If you do not lik the hair .. why is she so threatening about it? She sounds .. unbalanced.
 
I would guess you are a  high school student?
 
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I literally CANNOT right now ......

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I want this hair OUT NOW

I WANT IT OFF MY HEAD NOW!!!!
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Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:


The aggressiveness of your mother .. the way she grabbed your hair and domminates you ... sounds abusive. If you do not lik the hair .. why is she so threatening about it? She sounds .. unbalanced.
 
I would guess you are a  high school student?
 
Talk to your Guidance Counseler ... if you are not a troll  ... seek help. Find an adult.
she's horrible. She's so aggressive. A close friend just reported her parents to social services. She leaves her clothes in my room, and was shouting at me in case I took her tights. I told her politely that it's confusing having her tights in my room and she should keep them in her room so it's easier to know which one is which. She went off on me, screaming and calling me disrespectful, then grabbed a deodorant and was going to hit me with it.

I just can't wait until I'm out of this house in 2 years.
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Originally posted by brittsemone brittsemone wrote:

I know you read all of us say "it's just weave," "it's not that serious." But to you, it is. I really do agree with another member that says that this is the surface of a much deeper issue.

I had a weave when I was 15/16 that I really didn't like. It was cornrows in the front, deep wave (synthetic) hair in the back. Between the cornrows and weave was a giant braid covering the last track. The weave hair wasn't full...the braid was all thick and sat high. It was a mess. Made my head look big, etc. 

The point of that was just to say that it has happened to all of us. I have so many hair related horror stories, I could write 6 books and 2 movies. To be honest, your doesn't look bad. A little product around the edges ... maybe dampening the hair and loosely braiding or doing a few bantu knots will give it some curl like Normani's?

Please, don't hurt yourself more or do something permanent over a temporary issue. I used to self-harm and can understand how you may be feeling. This is only temporary. Sometimes, you just have to work with what you got until you can get something better :) Feel free to pm me if you want to talk! You can make this work Wink

Thank you very much you're very kind
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So take it out boo.
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So take it out boo.
I can't myself. All my friends are white or asian. My mother usually takes it out. Not enough money for salon.
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Originally posted by Nadiesca Nadiesca wrote:

Girl dont harm yourself for a bad weave!!!!!
Can you upload a pic of the weave??
 
Did you try having your mother calmly go to the stylist?
 You need to put things in perspective. I understand you are upset but its a weave not your real hair. Next time you need to at least tell the stylisy you are unhappy.
 
You cant be committing suicide everytime you have a bad day. If people did that, there would be no more members here!LOLLOLLOL


Edited by growlonghair - Nov 22 2013 at 3:27pm
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I agree with most ppl in this post ...go back to the stylist and demand they fix it. I had something very similar happen to me when i was in h.s and i tried to like the hair for about 2 days and when i reached my limit i went back and demanded they fix it. I also mentioned i would tell everyone I knew about the stylist if they didnt. (they dont like to lose clients) 
 
i wish i could give you a hug right now 
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I hate her! She won't let me buy the right makeup for me (with MY money) then gets me a cheap ass one that looks hideous. Like orange streaks under my eyes and it's so embarrassing walking around school with it. She forces me to wear it then will shout at me that I look like a disgusting freak.

I'm getting my hair done in January. It's been too long of a wait. The past two months have been constant hell.

My friend is getting their own flat soon so I may move in with him. My mother will flip but idgaf. I HATE her.
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