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HugI bet your skin is gorgeous. Yes there are dumb, close minded brainwashed ppl who prefer ligth skin and put down dark women, but not everyone is like that! It sounds like you are surrounded by morons. Have you considered going out of state for college?

I have been battling depression my whole life. You should message me if you need someone to talk to
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You need to learn to love yourself before you can love any guy or have a guy love you.

I bet you are gorgeous!!!

I'm a dark skin gal myself...like the others said, don't let these close minded folks make you feel bad about your skin tone
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Society does not LOVE anyone! and IA with the other posters you need to work on SELF-LOVE girly! start by learning about other women with embrace their own beauty! also surround yourself with images that feature your beauty! And if things are so bad where you live PLEASE MOVE! but if the problem is with you, you have to start with you, lovely one.
One book to start with is "don't GIVE it away"
http://www.amazon.com/Dont-Give-Away-Self-Awareness-Self-Affirmations/dp/0684869837

please post web pages and books that can help this sister... maybe something she can relate to
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don't forget there is a whole world outside of where you live! btw where do you live? college is coming soon, and that is a new opportunity to get closer to the life you want to live choose a place that you will find friends!
Do your parents know how you feel? do they support you? Do you have siblings or any friends like you?

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oh gawd damn...

i hope this isn't good ol' JayAtlanta with his "light skin/dark skin" thing again..

He's been doing this crap for years.. using different names, genders, etc.,

he has this thing about dark skinned girls being ugly, and loving light skinned girls..

He's so damn delusional, that at one time (May 2014) he posted that he was going to be the new owner of BHM.  He stated that He and Russ were "gravy"..

people fell for that and started kissing his as**.. the guy has a mental problem. 

Sometimes, the posts are from a "dark skinned" girls perspective, then he'll come back from a "light skinned girls" perspective..

everytime  any of us vets come in and bust him?  he vehemently says it's not him..  then someone will post a private message he sent them, saying how the "dumb as*s" member fell for his posts..

If this is him?  a lot of you vets must have forgotten, and drank the kool aid. 


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You are beautiful the way you are.Men make fun of me cause I'm not skinny and I don't dress like kim K or beyonce.I'm 28 and I still struggle with my body issues.Keep god first and know that he loves you the way you are.
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Go back to Mozambique, where you from and everybody look alike.
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Originally posted by naturesgift naturesgift wrote:

Society does not LOVE anyone!


You will never please society. What is "in" today will be "out" tomorrow.
There was a time where all women wanted to be chubby. Then in the 60's everyone wanted to be pencil thin like Twiggy. Suddenly everyone wanted to be bootylicious like Beyonce. Now some people are hopping on the gap-between-thighs bandwagon, but many people are slowly accepting themselves. That's why even Dove has that commercial with real women.

Quit trying to be accepted by society. You need to accept yourself, be happy with yourself, and forget the haters.


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Originally posted by femmemuscleisback femmemuscleisback wrote:

oh gawd damn...

i hope this isn't good ol' JayAtlanta with his "light skin/dark skin" thing again..

He's been doing this crap for years.. using different names, genders, etc.,

he has this thing about dark skinned girls being ugly, and loving light skinned girls..

He's so damn delusional, that at one time (May 2014) he posted that he was going to be the new owner of BHM.  He stated that He and Russ were "gravy"..

people fell for that and started kissing his as**.. the guy has a mental problem. 

Sometimes, the posts are from a "dark skinned" girls perspective, then he'll come back from a "light skinned girls" perspective..

everytime  any of us vets come in and bust him?  he vehemently says it's not him..  then someone will post a private message he sent them, saying how the "dumb as*s" member fell for his posts..

If this is him?  a lot of you vets must have forgotten, and drank the kool aid. 




oh. hmph.
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