| Ladybird0724 wrote:|
Just listen to her. she may want to talk about her dad, she may not. it's ok either way. Similarly, she may or may not want to hear stuff about "how his soul is free" and stuff...just play it by ear.
If you feel like you need to do something other than listen. go over to her house (or her parents) and offer to do little things like clean up the house, cook and/or freeze meals or take care of errands, or babysit. draft an email to her professors and let them know what happened (very important!!!) those things usually slip thru the cracks and I bet would be extremely helpful.
Yes @ the red. I hated those sort of platitudes when it was my time. It doesn't make it better to hear about his better place now. Just listen to her and tell her that if she needs anything, let you know. Ask if she needs help with errands or anything. For now it's enough and it will be appreciated.