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i'm notorious for seeing more than one person at a time so meeting friends and family early on is awkward so i don't do it. another reason why i am not quick to claim anyone. i have been in relationship with people for years before i introduced them to my family. i don't think i've ever introduced a bf to my family before a year. 



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We have to talk first. I'm not claiming anyone who doesn't want to be claimed lol
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Friends and family generally around the same time...early as possible. But now the friends I actually care about don't live in my state/country.

Generally, I meet people through friends or family anyway so they're already preapproved. The one time I didn't, that didn't work out.

Dude was against gay marriage and it came up the first time he had dinner with my mom, my sister, and my bil. And he let my mom pay the bill for dinner which was a huge no in my book (my mom doesn't care about stuff like that but in my view he should've just given the waitress his card when we first got there).
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i took a dude with me back in the day to my girlfriends house for dinner.  i was done with him when that nicca asked from some specific shyt out of her refrigerator.  nicca you better drank this drank and eat these scooby snacks she has prepared for your dumb azz...Sleepy
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We gotta have the talk deciding to be exclusive first...otherwise that sounds like a recipe for some hurt feelings.

I avoid meeting family like the plague and a man shouldn't be offended if I don't want them to meet my family. The only ones' opinions that matter are my mother and brothers and I can almost guarantee they won't like anyone lol.

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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:


i took a dude with me back in the day to my girlfriends house for dinner.  i was done with him when that nicca asked from some specific shyt out of her refrigerator.  nicca you better drank this drank and eat these scooby snacks she has prepared for your dumb azz...Sleepy


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Yep we must be on the same page can't be claiming someone in my head.
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if it is a surprise claim, I'd find out why

Could have nothing to do with me... or could be insecurity, he's not forthright, things that are yellow/red flags

I'd need more information including a convo

I wouldn't embarrass him in front of his family
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friends and family can happen around the same time
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meet friends first and ASAP. Meet family whenever, maybe never.


Edited by PurplePhase - Jul 07 2014 at 12:50pm
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