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I don't mind meeting family a bit early

but I have said on here how I stopped talking to a guy because I met his close family on the first date

sh*t made me super uncomfortable
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I'd smile but after we left I would tell him how it wasn't cool. I hate being on the spot. One time my ex introduced me to his great-aunt and other extended family members as his fiancé. Ninja we about two arguments away from breaking up, I was hot.
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


I don't mind meeting family a bit early

 
me either.  doesn't bother me.
 
but like you and others have stated, i too would need to have a lil chatty chat before i go claiming a nicca for real for real...
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Originally posted by Y.Gun Y.Gun wrote:

Once we have the conversation.


You don't want to jump to conclusions.


Trust me, lol.



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i HAVE to meet the family early so i can see what i'll be dealing with.
 
if her mom is like mama joyce
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I think mama joyce was okay at first

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I like to introduce people to my family early because I need to see if they'll fit. If my people's don't like you, I don't like you.


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what about your friends? do your friends meet the person you're dating before your your fam?

 
my first date with my lady went from just us two, to her inviting me for drinks with her girls later that evening. just me and 5 women who i barely knew having drinks. it was intimidating but i didn't let it show, tbh.
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For me it depended of the relationship: my first ex claimed me within a month; my second wanted me as his girlfriend right away, the third one was immature and took him over a month to claim me.

I don't like telling family members right away about the boyfriend until I am sure about him.
 
Some women claim the guy as their bf right away because they are happy in the relationship (or they are possessive).
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote ThoughtCouture Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 07 2014 at 11:47am
Originally posted by fckwitmeuknoigotit fckwitmeuknoigotit wrote:

what about your friends? do your friends meet the person you're dating before your your fam?

 
my first date with my lady went from just us two, to her inviting me for drinks with her girls later that evening. just me and 5 women who i barely knew having drinks. it was intimidating but i didn't let it show, tbh.
 
yep friends earlier than family.  in fact, friends really early waaaaaaaaaaaaay before feelings are caught...
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