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I like to introduce people to my family early because I need to see if they'll fit. If my people's don't like you, I don't like you.


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what about your friends? do your friends meet the person you're dating before your your fam?

 
my first date with my lady went from just us two, to her inviting me for drinks with her girls later that evening. just me and 5 women who i barely knew having drinks. it was intimidating but i didn't let it show, tbh.
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For me it depended of the relationship: my first ex claimed me within a month; my second wanted me as his girlfriend right away, the third one was immature and took him over a month to claim me.

I don't like telling family members right away about the boyfriend until I am sure about him.
 
Some women claim the guy as their bf right away because they are happy in the relationship (or they are possessive).
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Originally posted by fckwitmeuknoigotit fckwitmeuknoigotit wrote:

what about your friends? do your friends meet the person you're dating before your your fam?

 
my first date with my lady went from just us two, to her inviting me for drinks with her girls later that evening. just me and 5 women who i barely knew having drinks. it was intimidating but i didn't let it show, tbh.
 
yep friends earlier than family.  in fact, friends really early waaaaaaaaaaaaay before feelings are caught...
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i'm notorious for seeing more than one person at a time so meeting friends and family early on is awkward so i don't do it. another reason why i am not quick to claim anyone. i have been in relationship with people for years before i introduced them to my family. i don't think i've ever introduced a bf to my family before a year. 



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We have to talk first. I'm not claiming anyone who doesn't want to be claimed lol
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Friends and family generally around the same time...early as possible. But now the friends I actually care about don't live in my state/country.

Generally, I meet people through friends or family anyway so they're already preapproved. The one time I didn't, that didn't work out.

Dude was against gay marriage and it came up the first time he had dinner with my mom, my sister, and my bil. And he let my mom pay the bill for dinner which was a huge no in my book (my mom doesn't care about stuff like that but in my view he should've just given the waitress his card when we first got there).
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i took a dude with me back in the day to my girlfriends house for dinner.  i was done with him when that nicca asked from some specific shyt out of her refrigerator.  nicca you better drank this drank and eat these scooby snacks she has prepared for your dumb azz...Sleepy
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We gotta have the talk deciding to be exclusive first...otherwise that sounds like a recipe for some hurt feelings.

I avoid meeting family like the plague and a man shouldn't be offended if I don't want them to meet my family. The only ones' opinions that matter are my mother and brothers and I can almost guarantee they won't like anyone lol.

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Originally posted by ThoughtCouture ThoughtCouture wrote:


i took a dude with me back in the day to my girlfriends house for dinner.  i was done with him when that nicca asked from some specific shyt out of her refrigerator.  nicca you better drank this drank and eat these scooby snacks she has prepared for your dumb azz...Sleepy


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