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yea samone, this is what she told me but again, she isn't in the best situation relationshipwise.
 
maysay, i gave her that same scenario and she told me it was rude to do if y'all hadn't officially made it official.
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Well, it is rude if it's a surprise...like y'all had never discussed it before. To me that's like proposing in public even though marriage has never come up.

But, some people just don't see labels as a big deal at all. I know people who call each other their bf/gf or best friend after knowing them for like a week.
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Originally posted by Ladycoils Ladycoils wrote:

When we have a mutual conversation about our relationship status and I have determined I can be around you for long periods of time.
this...that conversation must be had
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Originally posted by fckwitmeuknoigotit fckwitmeuknoigotit wrote:

my female friend told me women claim their man before he realizes it or they make it official that they are indeed bf/gf.
 
close your eyes,
 
you and the guy you've been dating go to his family members home for a birthday party. you are familiar with his family/friends and this isn't new to you. the two of you walk into the party holding hands, again, nothing new. he then walks up to a family member you haven't met and he introduces you as his girlfriend for the first time.
 
open your eys, how do you respond?

I would not want to meet a guy's friends or family until we are serious... I prefer spending that time in the beginning deciding if I like YOU.... adding in friends and family too early has been the reason i've ending things with guys. 
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no rhyme or reason
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we need to have a conversation before anyone can go around claiming anyone. 

as far as the party scenario, out of respect i would play it cool. but afterwards we would have to talk. i don't like people claiming me unless we've had a conversation and both agreed that's what we want; i don't find it flattering at all.



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I'd smile but after we left I would tell him how it wasn't cool. I hate being on the spot. One time my ex introduced me to his great-aunt and other extended family members as his fiancé. Ninja we about two arguments away from breaking up, I was hot.
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


I don't mind meeting family a bit early

 
me either.  doesn't bother me.
 
but like you and others have stated, i too would need to have a lil chatty chat before i go claiming a nicca for real for real...
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Originally posted by Y.Gun Y.Gun wrote:

Once we have the conversation.


You don't want to jump to conclusions.


Trust me, lol.



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i HAVE to meet the family early so i can see what i'll be dealing with.
 
if her mom is like mama joyce
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