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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 20 2013 at 3:36pm
Originally posted by KhadiNiaomi KhadiNiaomi wrote:

I invited a guy over my house that I liked to chill, we were just "friends", there was obvious attraction between us two but we never spoke about it. Even though I took a risk, we ended up having a really good conversation and alot of laughter. I honestly dont like the whole lets go to a restaurant or movies just to "chill", thats wasting money, to talk. I prefer to go to the park, or somewhere to just chill and talk.


I think as long as you keep control of you and what you want - which is to get to know him better without giving the prize away without a relationship or at least some dating - is what matters.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 20 2013 at 8:38am
I invited a guy over my house that I liked to chill, we were just "friends", there was obvious attraction between us two but we never spoke about it. Even though I took a risk, we ended up having a really good conversation and alot of laughter. I honestly dont like the whole lets go to a restaurant or movies just to "chill", thats wasting money, to talk. I prefer to go to the park, or somewhere to just chill and talk.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 19 2013 at 2:10pm
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LOL Yea come over and chill means something going down....I usually don't mind Embarrassed
 
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It don't even have to go down, we could have a great discussion. I rather know the person first than start wasting money on someone. If I like them as for my track record, I have no problem doing dates and all of that. I just want to make sure it's real we don't have to be at my place, just somewhere we can talk and get to know each other and not wait 6 months when feelings are starting to be caught when we realize they aren't the one.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 16 2013 at 8:59pm
Dating is an antiquated racket.  Why do women still want men to buy their affection in 2013?  Why not reward a guy that you actually want regardless of how much $ he is willing to waste on you?





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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 16 2013 at 5:02am
LOL Yea come over and chill means something going down....I usually don't mind Embarrassed
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 16 2013 at 3:09am
"Come over and chillll" sounds like a guy wanting to f*ck. Um, no nicca. I dont come over for that, massages or to watch a movie. Im not 17, that sh*t dont work. LOL
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 15 2013 at 6:02pm
It works every time. I love that come over and chill.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 15 2013 at 12:13pm
Originally posted by SweetNovember* SweetNovember* wrote:

Set expectations from the very beginning. If he don't meet them he's gone.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 14 2013 at 5:34pm
Yeah don't fall for that shyt. Set expectations from the very beginning. If he don't meet them he's gone.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 14 2013 at 4:25pm
Originally posted by goodm3 goodm3 wrote:

Its so sad that women don't know their worth. I was having a conversation with a friend about this guy she likes. She basically told me her first "date" with him was him coming over to her house to chill and watch a movie. She tried to justify it by saying it during the week. I told her most single guys go out to eat all the time after work so him meeting you for dinner shouldn't have been a problem. Especially were she lives he passes 50-11MILLION restaurants.  

But its also up to the women too. Guys know who will fall for the "lets chill" and who won't. Carry yourself with the upmost respect and dignity and see how men handle you. 


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so true! men have a different attitude (just like we have a different outfit everyday) for every woman they date/hook up with. if you let him treat you like a quick meal, he will do it so.
if you impose that you are worth more than a simple quickie, then he will treat you the way you want.

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