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I just need to get out of columbus, ohio that's what I need to do. I work and have no kids and most of the women my age have at least 2 to three kids if not more.  And the women with no kids they usually don't date or deal with folks, so it's like you are left with not many options.
 
And Afro I only care about black women so why would I care about other races, they don't affect me cause I don't date them.
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Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

Originally posted by patternsandtexture patternsandtexture wrote:

But I usually date younger women though, I have never dated an older woman though, they usually like to control it and I see it and I drop them.
 

Ummm hold it … so the answer is to date younger women so that what ... YOU can control it? WOW! So it’s out then.

 

Ladies and Gentlemen ... I give you a man that cannot deal with a woman … on his level. Da Daaaaaa! Hee hee! Hey, A LOT of men are like this.

 

DUDE .. you don’t have to date an OLDER woman. Nor do you have to date a YOUNGER woman. There is another option … dating a woman that is YOUR age (within a year or so). DUH!

 

This does not seem to be a category for which you have investigated … ODD. (Umm him just likes dating younger girls so he can be in control like I said in the very beginning.)

 

Good luck with that – but remember, hee hee! no matter how young you get ‘em .. they will eventually grow up, see the carefree lives their girlfriends are living and power they have and realize what they forfeited to saddle themselves with the likes of you .. an older man that’s in control. Confused

 

Mark my words … some things never change.

 
Why would I control them? I don't control or guide, if they ask a question I'll answer it, but I'll probably serial date what not. It's not like I'm looking for marriage or anything like that. Definitely do not want kids or raising no kids. So I'll be looking for a doctor to tie up loose ends.
 
Also, the thing is with women my age and older they are too fcuking religious and they would be like god this and god that and I would be like uh huh, yeah Sleepy please shut up.


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awww damn don't do it
 
 What would a 27 year old have in common with a 19 year old. 
 
 
LOLLOLLOLLOLLOLLOL EXACTLY!!!
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Originally posted by bunzaveli bunzaveli wrote:

Originally posted by HaitianDiva64 HaitianDiva64 wrote:

awww damn don't do it
 
 What would a 27 year old have in common with a 19 year old. 
 
 
LOLLOLLOLLOLLOLLOL EXACTLY!!!
 
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Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

Originally posted by patternsandtexture patternsandtexture wrote:

But I usually date younger women though, I have never dated an older woman though, they usually like to control it and I see it and I drop them.
 

Ummm hold it … so the answer is to date younger women so that what ... YOU can control it? WOW! So it’s out then.

 

Ladies and Gentlemen ... I give you a man that cannot deal with a woman … on his level. Da Daaaaaa! Hee hee! Hey, A LOT of men are like this.

 

DUDE .. you don’t have to date an OLDER woman. Nor do you have to date a YOUNGER woman. There is another option … dating a woman that is YOUR age (within a year or so). DUH!

 

This does not seem to be a category for which you have investigated … ODD. (Umm him just likes dating younger girls so he can be in control like I said in the very beginning.)

 

Good luck with that – but remember, hee hee! no matter how young you get ‘em .. they will eventually grow up, see the carefree lives their girlfriends are living and power they have and realize what they forfeited to saddle themselves with the likes of you .. an older man that’s in control. Confused

 

Mark my words … some things never change.

 
Why would I control them? I don't control or guide, if they ask a question I'll answer it, but I'll probably serial date what not. It's not like I'm looking for marriage or anything like that. Definitely do not want kids or raising no kids. So I'll be looking for a doctor to tie up loose ends.
 
Also, the thing is with women my age and older they are too fcuking religious and they would be like god this and god that and I would be like uh huh, yeah Sleepy please shut up.
 
Well, you need to move then.
 
There are plenty of level headed beautful women that are looking for a real relationship and .. they have it together. Looks, confidence, Education, money, career, (no babies) ... the works.
 
The problem is there is an 8 to 1 ratio of Black women to Black men so ... the pickins are slim. So yes, they have to source a partner from other races if they want something real.
 
And that Religious crap? Can't stand it .Dead  It's for weak people IMO. Stalin said is best when he said ...'Religion is the Opium of the masses'. Yep, keeps ém all dumbed up. Wacko
 
This is another reason I left America and moved to a non-religious country.
 
Move. Try Atlanta!
 


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Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

Originally posted by patternsandtexture patternsandtexture wrote:

Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

Originally posted by patternsandtexture patternsandtexture wrote:

But I usually date younger women though, I have never dated an older woman though, they usually like to control it and I see it and I drop them.
 

Ummm hold it … so the answer is to date younger women so that what ... YOU can control it? WOW! So it’s out then.

 

Ladies and Gentlemen ... I give you a man that cannot deal with a woman … on his level. Da Daaaaaa! Hee hee! Hey, A LOT of men are like this.

 

DUDE .. you don’t have to date an OLDER woman. Nor do you have to date a YOUNGER woman. There is another option … dating a woman that is YOUR age (within a year or so). DUH!

 

This does not seem to be a category for which you have investigated … ODD. (Umm him just likes dating younger girls so he can be in control like I said in the very beginning.)

 

Good luck with that – but remember, hee hee! no matter how young you get ‘em .. they will eventually grow up, see the carefree lives their girlfriends are living and power they have and realize what they forfeited to saddle themselves with the likes of you .. an older man that’s in control. Confused

 

Mark my words … some things never change.

 
Why would I control them? I don't control or guide, if they ask a question I'll answer it, but I'll probably serial date what not. It's not like I'm looking for marriage or anything like that. Definitely do not want kids or raising no kids. So I'll be looking for a doctor to tie up loose ends.
 
Also, the thing is with women my age and older they are too fcuking religious and they would be like god this and god that and I would be like uh huh, yeah Sleepy please shut up.
 
Well, you need to move then.
 
There are plenty of level headed beautful women that are looking for a real relationship and .. they have it together. Looks, confidence, Education, money, career, (no babies) ... the works.
 
The problem is there is an 8 to 1 ratio of Black women to Black men so ... the pickins are slim. So yes, they have to source a partner from other races if they want something real.
 
And that Religious crap? Can't stand it .Dead  It's for weak people IMO. Stalin said is best when he said ...'Religion is the Opium of the masses'. Yep, keeps ém all dumbed up. Wacko
 
This is another reason I left America and moved to a non-religious country.
 
Move. Try Atlanta!
 
 
Right, I'm going to finish up my degree first and do a lot of huge savings and I want to move overseas once again. New places, different ideas, new people, but I would love a nice woman to move, but most of what I was talking about was hypothetical with the younger woman. I'm open to between 21 to 35, I like to pick up and travel.
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Bless yo heart.....a 27 year old man ain't that dayum mature! Could work but have fun and get yo feelings in check.....play this with your head......
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Bless yo heart.....a 27 year old man ain't that dayum mature! Could work but have fun and get yo feelings in check.....play this with your head......
 
true, very true LOL
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done it. 
we were 7 years apart
Would never do it again
not here to be molded by someone.
me and him are very good friends and if i need some serious or financial advice he is one of my confidants

even though one may date someone that is older, doesnt mean they demonstrate maturity. some 40 yr olds are worse than the 20 yr olds. 
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my mom was  years younger than my dad ( mid 30s-mid 50s), but she totally ran everything and he'd proudly tell folks that too. I don't know if he molded her or not LOL, but if he did, he molded her to be the one in control. She wasn't bossy with it but he lovingly referred to her as his 'boss lady.' She wielded her power with grace though, not overbearing at all. I loved their relationship and interaction together.
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