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Originally posted by bunzaveli bunzaveli wrote:

that Brotha probably got a car, a place, and some money, go ahead do it girl (if that Brotha dont got none of that wtf you dawin ?). as long as he doesnt hit you, knock you up, ask to go raw, or want to get married you, you'll be fine.

imho, no james avery




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I won't tell you not to do it cuz you gonna do what you want

But don't do anything you don't want to and make sure he treats you like a LADY, not some young dumb tramp.

Older dudes tend to date younger girls because younger women are easily impressed and easy to manipulate. Let him know it ain't gonna be you!

I got stories for daaaaaaays but I heard BHM never forgets. Don't let these men get you hemmed up though!!!
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Originally posted by xx_quanna_x xx_quanna_x wrote:

No kids
he works in a dentist office 
& he does look like the type to become controlling after a while.Confused


Kick em all straight to da curb like Beckham
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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

^^^^ Times have changed. That seemed to be more the norm then for various reasons.....


Not at all.  My mother was the 27 year old and my dad was the 19 year old.
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were you a patient in that dentist office?
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Don't.do.it. What does a 27 year old and a 19 year old REALLY have in common? If you're both in college, you're talking about gen ed courses and he's talking about his 20 page papers for grad school. #girlbye
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Originally posted by AwesomeAries AwesomeAries wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Dump him

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But seriously it could work, but you have to be more assertive and you should know about yourself and redefine yourself at every time you reevulate yourself and it should stand out.

But I'm 29 now and I'm not religious at all and I want to find that in a partner, but the older I get the more religious and more children these women have. So I can understand why try to get a partner at a younger age.
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Originally posted by xx_quanna_x xx_quanna_x wrote:

8 years age difference & he's extremely mature compared to what I'm used to

Any and all advice would be nice/helpful
 
Umm I think if you are describing him in this manner .. he is too old for you.
 
Follow your instincts ...
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Originally posted by AmiliaCabral AmiliaCabral wrote:

Originally posted by xx_quanna_x xx_quanna_x wrote:

No kids
he works in a dentist office 
& he does look like the type to become controlling after a while.Confused


Kick em all straight to da curb like Beckham
 
Hold it.  So already you can tell that he is the type to get controlling? Wow. Step back!
 
If you decide to try it -
 
- GO SLOW (anytime there's a big rush to make it work .. disaster is on the horizon)
- Do not accept expensive gifts/take money or he will think you are cheap and he can buy you - won't last ... he will move on to someone more challenging
- and whatever you do DO NOT SLEEP with him for a good 3 months! - otherwise you will be too easy, the game is over .. he will be gone.
 
These are my general rules ... but 27 and 19 umm I agree with the others .. what do you have in common and WHY is he wanting to be with a 19 year old? It can't be that you don't have kids yet. Thay can't be a reason to date younger (unless he is controlling and then we are back to Plan A).
 
Really, I find this age thing ... quite suspect.
 
 


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