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Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

If there is chemistry and the date is going well, I don't see whats wrong with holding hands. 


Thats totally different from a man just grabbing ya hand. A woman has a way of letting a man know what is and isnt okay. Again its personal space. Being invited in vs kicking the door open and making ur way in.

 
I'm being funny here but Gk, as far as personal space goes......do you walk down the street next to your date or arms length apart???LOLHug



Na. We walk side by side lol im more touchy with guys i like. Ive held a guys hand (and then some) on a first date and it was great. Ive also had guys try to hold my hand and rub the small of my back on a first date and i pulled away.
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Originally posted by keepgrowing keepgrowing wrote:

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aww ya'll I feel bad, I know she just recently went through i really personal loss, so I thought her dating quickly was like her way of not thinking about it. I don't want her to get hurt by someone. 

Awww poor girl. She sounds vulnerable. Well yall should go out this weekend or something instead of her latching onto a man after 7 days. That is not healthy. 

I wouldn't cut him off completely because that is a little dramatic. She should just keep him on a friendly level and go about her business. If he invites her on a real date cool, but nothing more than that until her mind is clearer.  
They've been out on 3 actual dinner/movie/drinks dates already 
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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

That's what McDonald's are for. I only take my mother to nice restaurants unless I know she is real and we been dating for a 8 months.


For some reason I feel like the mall food court is a good place for a date. That way, each person can get what they want to eat, it's in public, you can talk to each other and you can people watch, and if you want to spend more time together you can walk around the mall.





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So did i when i was in high school


Too many snakes in the pit for you to go all out in this dating world. I ain't trying to gamble too much on a bad investment.
 
I know good and darn well you are not taking your date to MCDONALDS on your first dateOuchShocked You joking right?
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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Originally posted by NuAttitude NuAttitude wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

If there is chemistry and the date is going well, I don't see whats wrong with holding hands. 


Thats totally different from a man just grabbing ya hand. A woman has a way of letting a man know what is and isnt okay. Again its personal space. Being invited in vs kicking the door open and making ur way in.

 
I'm being funny here but Gk, as far as personal space goes......do you walk down the street next to your date or arms length apart???LOLHug



Na. We walk side by side lol im more touchy with guys i like. Ive held a guys hand (and then some) on a first date and it was great. Ive also had guys try to hold my hand and rub the small of my back on a first date and i pulled away.
Now that would freak me out!
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Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

If there is chemistry and the date is going well, I don't see whats wrong with holding hands. 


Thats totally different from a man just grabbing ya hand. A woman has a way of letting a man know what is and isnt okay. Again its personal space. Being invited in vs kicking the door open and making ur way in.


Yes I agree. 
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Originally posted by NuAttitude NuAttitude wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

That's what McDonald's are for. I only take my mother to nice restaurants unless I know she is real and we been dating for a 8 months.


For some reason I feel like the mall food court is a good place for a date. That way, each person can get what they want to eat, it's in public, you can talk to each other and you can people watch, and if you want to spend more time together you can walk around the mall.





Genius!


So did i when i was in high school


Too many snakes in the pit for you to go all out in this dating world. I ain't trying to gamble too much on a bad investment.

 
I know good and darn well you are not taking your date to MCDONALDS on your first dateOuchShocked You joking right?



I done it before and I'll step it up to cup of Joe's once in a while
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if she wanted someone committed, not involved with anyone else, whom she trusts implicitly 

Why have sex with him so quickly? Or have sex with him before finding all of that out?
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Originally posted by beautiful-stranger beautiful-stranger wrote:

Originally posted by keepgrowing keepgrowing wrote:

Originally posted by beautiful-stranger beautiful-stranger wrote:

aww ya'll I feel bad, I know she just recently went through i really personal loss, so I thought her dating quickly was like her way of not thinking about it. I don't want her to get hurt by someone. 

Awww poor girl. She sounds vulnerable. Well yall should go out this weekend or something instead of her latching onto a man after 7 days. That is not healthy. 

I wouldn't cut him off completely because that is a little dramatic. She should just keep him on a friendly level and go about her business. If he invites her on a real date cool, but nothing more than that until her mind is clearer.  
They've been out on 3 actual dinner/movie/drinks dates already 

Ya I know. I'm referring to the future. If he continues to invite her out on those type of dates, I don't see why she should decline since they did enjoy each other's company. Slow it down and maybe something will grow from it, but being pressed after 7 days isn't healthy. I feel for her, but it's not like they've been dating for 7 months.

Him saying that another girl's feelings for him is the reason he doesn't want to invite her out with his friends is code for he is seeing other women.


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Originally posted by keepgrowing keepgrowing wrote:

Originally posted by beautiful-stranger beautiful-stranger wrote:

Originally posted by keepgrowing keepgrowing wrote:

Originally posted by beautiful-stranger beautiful-stranger wrote:

aww ya'll I feel bad, I know she just recently went through i really personal loss, so I thought her dating quickly was like her way of not thinking about it. I don't want her to get hurt by someone. 

Awww poor girl. She sounds vulnerable. Well yall should go out this weekend or something instead of her latching onto a man after 7 days. That is not healthy. 

I wouldn't cut him off completely because that is a little dramatic. She should just keep him on a friendly level and go about her business. If he invites her on a real date cool, but nothing more than that until her mind is clearer.  
They've been out on 3 actual dinner/movie/drinks dates already 

Ya I know. I'm referring to the future. If he continues to invite her out on those type of dates, I don't see why she should decline since they did enjoy each other's company. Slow it down, no more sleepover, and maybe something will grow from it, but being pressed after 7 days isn't healthy. I feel for her, but it's not like they've been dating for 7 months.

Him saying that another girl's feelings for him is the reason he doesn't want to invite her out with his friends is code for he is seeing other women.

Ahh i see what you mean, makes sense definitely. well only time will tell hopefully he is actually genuine. but still he's shady
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i don't say "date" anymore...i just say we going out and i will be right back...or if in a relationship...i would say...yeah we're seeing each other " meaning we r in a relationship..


meaning of certain old words we used back in the day have a new meaning today..
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