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Originally posted by beautiful-stranger beautiful-stranger wrote:

aww ya'll I feel bad, I know she just recently went through i really personal loss, so I thought her dating quickly was like her way of not thinking about it. I don't want her to get hurt by someone. 

Awww poor girl. She sounds vulnerable. Well yall should go out this weekend or something instead of her latching onto a man after 7 days. That is not healthy. 

I wouldn't cut him off completely because that is a little dramatic. She should just keep him on a friendly level and go about her business. If he invites her on a real date cool, but nothing more than that until her mind is clearer.  


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If there is chemistry and the date is going well, I don't see whats wrong with holding hands. 
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by NuAttitude NuAttitude wrote:

I'm confused about this holding hands comment.  I mean, what's the problem with holding hand? I feel holding hands is a nice gesture.  Just because I held your hand doesn't mean we fcking the same night.  I rather hold hands on the first date than fck, but that's just me!  Enlighten me please


I am not a squishy, emotional person

so to get me to  genuinely want to do those things with you takes time

not a year lol, but not the first date
 
Yea, I understand your feelings behind it.  I wasn't a big fan of kissing or showing affection in public, not even with my ex-husband.  But now.......shiiiiiiit I bang you in Prospect Park if you're down.EmbarrassedLOL  But I hear ya SL.  Wink
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Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

If there is chemistry and the date is going well, I don't see whats wrong with holding hands. 


Thats totally different from a man just grabbing ya hand. A woman has a way of letting a man know what is and isnt okay. Again its personal space. Being invited in vs kicking the door open and making ur way in.
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My ex was really affectionate PDA all the time. He held my hand on our first date. I was uncomfortable at first, but grew to like it. My current not so much. Kinda miss it.
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Originally posted by NuAttitude NuAttitude wrote:

I'm confused about this holding hands comment.  I mean, what's the problem with holding hand? I feel holding hands is a nice gesture.  Just because I held your hand doesn't mean we fcking the same night.  I rather hold hands on the first date than fck, but that's just me!  Enlighten me please

this is not an American thing...

I'm American and i see no issue with holding hands with a man on a date. 

..but I also don't go on date just for a free meal. If I agree to on a date with a guy it means im honestly interested/attracted to him. 
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I've gone on a few "I'm bored" dates
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Originally posted by Marcelo22 Marcelo22 wrote:

If there is chemistry and the date is going well, I don't see whats wrong with holding hands. 
 
Some people are not comfortable or may not be that affectionate. It can also be cultural. Hell I would be creeped out if my date wiped food off from my mouth or picked lettuce out of my teeth.  Bottom line, everyone is different and has different views and/or expectations about certain things.  Don't knock em, get to know em.Wink
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:

Originally posted by iliveforbhm iliveforbhm wrote:

Who knows she probably lying and trying to pretending being proper but would do more than hold hands for red lobster biscuits.


I don't think I'm that proper lol

I don't like red lobster

and my views on sex are probably not the same as a good number of woman on here

but guess what....I still got that ring tho...................




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I love pda but not with a stranger. Lol some dudes do the hand holding thing as a "move" right out the gate.
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