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the guy im dating right now, is 'out of my league' financially/family money... physically i don't think he is out of my league, but he is the most fit guy i've ever dated, he runs/works out a lot. he is def smarter than i am since he is in med school.. he is more social than I am.. 

but i am just as awesome in different aspects.. and he adores me, sooo i guess that officially negates him bieng out of my league.. 

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can someone be out of your league that's obsessed with you? does that make sense?
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Originally posted by tbaby123 tbaby123 wrote:

the guy im dating right now, is 'out of my league' financially/family money... physically i don't think he is out of my league, but he is the most fit guy i've ever dated, he runs/works out a lot. he is def smarter than i am since he is in med school.. he is more social than I am.. 

but i am just as awesome in different aspects.. and he adores me, sooo i guess that officially negates him bieng out of my league.. 

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can someone be out of your league that's obsessed with you? does that make sense?
 
ABSOLUTELY!  Big smile
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When you're a woman there's really know such thing as out of your league imo.
Men date down.
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Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

When you're a woman there's really know such thing as out of your league imo.
Men date down.
 
o rly?  Bey may have sumthin to say bout this. . .
 
but, idk her, so . . .  LOL
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I am too awesome of a woman to feel that way.
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Originally posted by PeacefulOne PeacefulOne wrote:

I did. But I was young.  Lemme splain:
 
First, this was my first serious relationship.  I was 18. He was 25.  He came from a wealthy family, a famous family.  I was from a poor family, never had "nice things", never really traveled,  and I was "virginal".  I was naive, trusting, not sophisticated; he spoke 3 languages fluently, and was world traveled.  He was a musician, and his parents owned a resturant.  Everything he taught me was new. I didn't know how to dress for the occasion, or what to say to people, cause I was shy had never been taught.  I had never lived on my own either.  So I felt he was out of my league.  He did teach me a lot.  We were together 4 solid years, 5, off and on.  And even today we are still friends, and he told me once, I was the one that got away.  
 
Glad to say that I grew, and learned and changed, and he never made me feel less for not being uppity or conceited.  I think that's what he like about me.
 
Oh boy those were good times. Lol. 


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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote laceyfront Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 10:55am
Well looks wise there is a such thing as out of your league, Im a strong believer of dating within your own level of attractiveness. His fine ass is gone cheat on your ugly ass. I went below my league twice.....never a fvcking gain! Ugly men get cocky when they have a good looking woman on their arm and it turns my stomach, like nigra don't you realize I did you a favor?
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financially and academically speaking, I've always dated guys who were in my league. Never spiritually though, my current SO is at a place in his relationship with God that I haven't reached yet. I really admire him for that. 
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Yep when I dated the chief of police for a few years and vet later
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I dated down...in every sense, looks, job, education, lifestyle...


But this negroid was so damn cocky, talkin bout how girls would always stare at him wherever he went. But I knew it was an act because he'd always asked if I really liked him because it was too good to be true and he thought I was better than him.

Never.again.

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