Black Hair Media Forum Homepage
BHM BHM BHM
Forum Home Forum Home > Lets Talk > Talk, Talk, and More Talk
  New Posts New Posts RSS Feed - Dating older men
  FAQ FAQ  Forum Search   Register Register  Login Login
 

Topic ClosedDating older men

 
 Post Reply Post Reply Page  <1 242526
Hair ViVi

Ultra



Author
 Rating: Topic Rating: 3 Votes, Average 2.33  Topic Search Topic Search  Topic Options Topic Options
Gkisses View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Jul 12 2008
Location: CrackaIsland
Status: Offline
Points: 462975
Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 1:45pm
Originally posted by FarraFace FarraFace wrote:

Whatever gkisses! If his ass was covered in tats, spikes, a weeks worth of grime, and had a little zest sprinkled on for good measure, yo ass would be slangin low sodium plates lef an right.

Wuteva trick. Wut.evv.errrrr!



I dont do boiled chicken
Back to Top
Sponsored Links


Back to Top
uppitynegroid View Drop Down
Platinum Member
Platinum Member
Avatar

Joined: Jul 28 2005
Status: Offline
Points: 48719
Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 1:57pm
I'm creeped out by men younger than me, not older.  12 yrs may or may not be a big deal depending on the 2 people involved.  Ideally, I think a 5 year age difference (give or take a couple years) is ideal. 
 
In all honesty, it really doesn't matter at the end of the day.  The older I get, the more I realize its character, not age  that you should be concerned with. 
Back to Top
kaai View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Sep 02 2008
Status: Offline
Points: 19403
Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 3:23pm
it sound like you guys just ain't a good match.
age doesn't seem to be the issue here.....
you just dont like him
or you expect him to act older..... he sound a little immature

Next! I would date an older guy but I would've to have things in common w him...
Back to Top
sexyandfamous View Drop Down
VIP Member
VIP Member
Avatar

Joined: Nov 06 2012
Status: Offline
Points: 81636
Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 6:00pm
Originally posted by bk2la981 bk2la981 wrote:

All this geriatric wants to do is talk about feelings. Pays me too many compliments, it makes me feel a bit uncomfortable. I don't know how to get out of it since we kinda work together. I tried to play the, its not you, its me card but he didn't care and wants to ” help” me get past my ” problems”.


are you still sexually and physically attracted to him? Because if you aren't just end with him and tell the reasons, the same way you would do with a guy your age.

I dated a guy older than me and he also came on too strong with the compliments and his feelings and I just told him that it was too much.  He relaxed it a bit and everything went well after that.
Back to Top
bk2la981 View Drop Down
Senior Member
Senior Member


Joined: Mar 18 2012
Status: Offline
Points: 1951
Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 30 2012 at 12:54am
I agree with all 3 of you ladies. I think I stil am attracted to him, I'm just not used to it. Ive always appreciated a younger face, ie reggie bush, ochostinko, etc... Maybe its something I would have to get used to, but the feelings talks gets on my nerves and I don't think he can help/stop it. Maybe I wouldnt mind it so much if I was more into him, idk... Maybe I'm just being mean.
Back to Top
sexyandfamous View Drop Down
VIP Member
VIP Member
Avatar

Joined: Nov 06 2012
Status: Offline
Points: 81636
Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 30 2012 at 1:11am
just curious: is he white?
not sure if you posted that already.

I can't picture a 45-year-old Reggie Bush look-alike talking about his feelings.


Edited by sexyandfamous - Nov 30 2012 at 1:13am
Back to Top
sexyandfamous View Drop Down
VIP Member
VIP Member
Avatar

Joined: Nov 06 2012
Status: Offline
Points: 81636
Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 30 2012 at 1:12am
Oh and when I told him to relax a bit it was more about the feelings talk; I loved the complimenting part! It boosted my self-esteem ;)


Edited by sexyandfamous - Nov 30 2012 at 1:13am
Back to Top
bk2la981 View Drop Down
Senior Member
Senior Member


Joined: Mar 18 2012
Status: Offline
Points: 1951
Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 30 2012 at 6:26pm
Originally posted by sexyandfamous sexyandfamous wrote:


just curious: is he white?
not sure if you posted that already.

I can't picture a 45-year-old Reggie Bush look-alike talking about his feelings.




He's black, from one of the hoodest hoods. He doesn't look like reggie bush, I was just saying that I have always appreciated a younger looking face such as rb's. I think he's seeing the light at the end of the tunnel so its cool.

I guess I wouldnt mind the compliments if I was more into him. Trey songz could talk me to death about his feelings if he wanted to.
Back to Top
Hair ViVi
Ultra
 Post Reply Post Reply Page  <1 242526
  Share Topic   

Forum Jump Forum Permissions View Drop Down