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Originally posted by bk2la981 bk2la981 wrote:

Originally posted by starflower7 starflower7 wrote:


Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Older men give good head


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So I did some ratchetness a few months ago. I lightly dated someone who was 7 years younger. I knew it wouldnt amount to anything. Rebound, he was cute, had a job, own place, car, very mature for his age...I cut it off cause I don't think its fair to trap a guy that young into marriage. Young guys give good head too. I was like huh??????!? You are 24!!! Where did you learn that!?!? Is there a school??? How did this happen???!?

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Hard fuking is how I read that lol

Lol, I wish, it only happened once. The head a few times. But we went out more than we stayed in. Then I realized I was wasting my time.
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All the things you guys are saying about middle-aged women in the dating world makes me scared to get older!! Thank god I am 20

And I think a person can indeed measure their own attractiveness, especially if they get a certain amount of attention.

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Originally posted by bk2la981 bk2la981 wrote:

Originally posted by starflower7 starflower7 wrote:


Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Older men give good head


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So I did some ratchetness a few months ago. I lightly dated someone who was 7 years younger. I knew it wouldnt amount to anything. Rebound, he was cute, had a job, own place, car, very mature for his age...I cut it off cause I don't think its fair to trap a guy that young into marriage. Young guys give good head too. I was like huh??????!? You are 24!!! Where did you learn that!?!? Is there a school??? How did this happen???!?


Why are you trying to trap any body? Marriage shouldnt be a game of cat and mouse or trapping. and how does one go about said trapping...?


 




I probably worded that wrong. No marriage is not trapping, but I feel that if I would marry someone that young, it would feel like entrapment later on. A 24 year old has no business being married to a 30 yr old. Even if he's all for it, later on he might think, ” damn, i.didn't get to live out my 20' s, I got trapped”
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Originally posted by bk2la981 bk2la981 wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:


Originally posted by bk2la981 bk2la981 wrote:

Originally posted by starflower7 starflower7 wrote:


Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Older men give good head


Beer


So I did some ratchetness a few months ago. I lightly dated someone who was 7 years younger. I knew it wouldnt amount to anything. Rebound, he was cute, had a job, own place, car, very mature for his age...I cut it off cause I don't think its fair to trap a guy that young into marriage. Young guys give good head too. I was like huh??????!? You are 24!!! Where did you learn that!?!? Is there a school??? How did this happen???!?


Why are you trying to trap any body? Marriage shouldnt be a game of cat and mouse or trapping. and how does one go about said trapping...?


 




I probably worded that wrong. No marriage is not trapping, but I feel that if I would marry someone that young, it would feel like entrapment later on. A 24 year old has no business being married to a 30 yr old. Even if he's all for it, later on he might think, ” damn, i.didn't get to live out my 20' s, I got trapped”

I would never trap anyone with a child or anything else.
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Originally posted by Hello! Tsuki Hello! Tsuki wrote:

All the things you guys are saying about middle-aged women in the dating world makes me scared to get older!! Thank god I am 20

And I think a person can indeed measure their own attractiveness, especially if they get a certain amount of attention.




It aint that hard to date after ur 20
Unless:

  • you have multiple children
  • No career
  • Unstable financially
  • Horrible selection in men

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Originally posted by Hello! Tsuki Hello! Tsuki wrote:

All the things you guys are saying about middle-aged women in the dating world makes me scared to get older!! Thank god I am 20

And I think a person can indeed measure their own attractiveness, especially if they get a certain amount of attention.






It aint that hard to date after ur 20
Unless:

  • you have multiple children
  • No career
  • Unstable financially
  • Horrible selection in men



Depends on what state you live in too. For me, I wasted my prime years on a horrible person, ie, horrible selection of men which you spoke of. I also don't meet anyone good or anyone period.
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

ouch!!!


it's not even an attempt to be super rude or to throw shade.  i am not even trying to read OP but many men...even if they are old...want to date women in their 20s. it's gross & unfair but in the dating world after a certain age, men have the upper hand. why? bc men are still seen as a prize as they age, are typically considered "better" looking and more attractive, especially if they have a career and no kids...whereas women are just seen as..old...and "what-is-wrong-with-her-why-isn't-she-married."

mens stocks rise with age, while womens decline. probably why so many women will tell younger women to not be so picky [idk about that line of reasoning but i have never heard of a man receiving such advice]

..and the men will date younger women who they think are more flexible and have less bag.gage

Men ALWAYS have the upper hand in dating.

But because most young men don't know how to control their thirst, that makes womens feel empowered.
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What upper hand do men have in dating?
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What upper hand do men have in dating?

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