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 Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 12:55am |
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Man if you a single 30 year old woman u should be open to dating men all the way up to 50.
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LOLOLOL. If I didn't have a sense of humor this would make me cry. I wasted the last 4 years on someone who I saw potential in but couldnt get his act together. Big mistake. I live in LA, its slim pickings here. On top of that I don't want to settle so I haven't found ” the one” yet. This guy is almost perfect but his age makes me think I'm settling. Btw, I'm not ugly at all. An 8, maybe more. and I myself look very young. everyone thinks I'm 22 by looking at me, after speaking to me they realize I'm older. |
LoL...how can you rate yourself though? Your rating of yourself isn't worth squat.
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Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 12:57am |
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it's not even an attempt to be super rude or to throw shade. i am not even trying to read OP but many men...even if they are old...want to date women in their 20s. it's gross & unfair but in the dating world after a certain age, men have the upper hand. why? bc men are still seen as a prize as they age, are typically considered "better" looking and more attractive, especially if they have a career and no kids...whereas women are just seen as..old...and "what-is-wrong-with-her-why-isn't-she-married."
mens stocks rise with age, while womens decline. probably why so many women will tell younger women to not be so picky [idk about that line of reasoning but i have never heard of a man receiving such advice]
..and the men will date younger women who they think are more flexible and have less bag.gage
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Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 1:02am |
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My dad is twelve years older than my mom and they got married when she was 20 I think.
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Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 2:03am |
EPITOME wrote:
afrokock wrote:
ouch!!! |
it's not even an attempt to be super rude or to throw shade. i am not even trying to read OP but many men...even if they are old...want to date women in their 20s. it's gross & unfair but in the dating world after a certain age, men have the upper hand. why? bc men are still seen as a prize as they age, are typically considered "better" looking and more attractive, especially if they have a career and no kids...whereas women are just seen as..old...and "what-is-wrong-with-her-why-isn't-she-married."
mens stocks rise with age, while womens decline. probably why so many women will tell younger women to not be so picky [idk about that line of reasoning but i have never heard of a man receiving such advice]
..and the men will date younger women who they think are more flexible and have less bag.gage
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That's for men who are looking for arm candy who are probably going through a crisis or need a 20 something year old to make them feel better, hes not. He's really just looking for someone to settle down with...again.. Hes divorced. Hes confident enough to date a 40 year old woman if he liked her personality. I see and hear what women think of him and its all good.
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Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 2:15am |
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Lmao!
It's not weird but if u r insecure about it keep waiting around. Most women in their 30s have better luck with men in their 40s because a lot of mn in their 30s are really dating the 20s or later teens. Especially if they think they are a catch, they r looking for the youngins
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Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 2:31am |
bk2la981 wrote:
EPITOME wrote:
afrokock wrote:
ouch!!! |
it's not even an attempt to be super rude or to throw shade. i am not even trying to read OP but many men...even if they are old...want to date women in their 20s. it's gross & unfair but in the dating world after a certain age, men have the upper hand. why? bc men are still seen as a prize as they age, are typically considered "better" looking and more attractive, especially if they have a career and no kids...whereas women are just seen as..old...and "what-is-wrong-with-her-why-isn't-she-married."
mens stocks rise with age, while womens decline. probably why so many women will tell younger women to not be so picky [idk about that line of reasoning but i have never heard of a man receiving such advice]
..and the men will date younger women who they think are more flexible and have less bag.gage
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That's for men who are looking for arm candy who are probably going through a crisis or need a 20 something year old to make them feel better, hes not. He's really just looking for someone to settle down with...again.. Hes divorced. Hes confident enough to date a 40 year old woman if he liked her personality. I see and hear what women think of him and its all good. |
you sure he's not desperate?
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Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 2:37am |
starflower7 wrote:
bk2la981 wrote:
Positive K wrote:
Man if you a single 30 year old woman u should be open to dating men all the way up to 50.
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LOLOLOL. If I didn't have a sense of humor this would make me cry. I wasted the last 4 years on someone who I saw potential in but couldnt get his act together. Big mistake. I live in LA, its slim pickings here. On top of that I don't want to settle so I haven't found ” the one” yet. This guy is almost perfect but his age makes me think I'm settling. Btw, I'm not ugly at all. An 8, maybe more. and I myself look very young. everyone thinks I'm 22 by looking at me, after speaking to me they realize I'm older. |
LoL...how can you rate yourself though? Your rating of yourself isn't worth squat. |
Ehhh. Kinda true, but when you garner a certain amount of attention you kinda know where you stand. I have no boobs worth speaking of so it must be the face. I meant an 8 in face, not overall. I could go on about how I came to an 8 but I don't want to sound conceited, which I'm sure everyone thinks already. I just said that so that PK didn't think I'm some dog that needs to hurry up and settle for anything I can get. If I wanted to settle I would he married already.
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Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 2:39am |
afrokock wrote:
bk2la981 wrote:
EPITOME wrote:
afrokock wrote:
ouch!!! |
it's not even an attempt to be super rude or to throw shade. i am not even trying to read OP but many men...even if they are old...want to date women in their 20s. it's gross & unfair but in the dating world after a certain age, men have the upper hand. why? bc men are still seen as a prize as they age, are typically considered "better" looking and more attractive, especially if they have a career and no kids...whereas women are just seen as..old...and "what-is-wrong-with-her-why-isn't-she-married."
mens stocks rise with age, while womens decline. probably why so many women will tell younger women to not be so picky [idk about that line of reasoning but i have never heard of a man receiving such advice]
..and the men will date younger women who they think are more flexible and have less bag.gage
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That's for men who are looking for arm candy who are probably going through a crisis or need a 20 something year old to make them feel better, hes not. He's really just looking for someone to settle down with...again.. Hes divorced. Hes confident enough to date a 40 year old woman if he liked her personality. I see and hear what women think of him and its all good. |
you sure he's not desperate?
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lol, I don't know how to take that. No he's not. From what I heard from the people who work there, he has a lot of nice looking female admirers of all ages even younger than me. :-\
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Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 2:45am |
EPITOME wrote:
afrokock wrote:
ouch!!! |
it's not even an attempt to be super rude or to throw shade. i am not even trying to read OP but many men...even if they are old...want to date women in their 20s. it's gross & unfair but in the dating world after a certain age, men have the upper hand. why? bc men are still seen as a prize as they age, are typically considered "better" looking and more attractive, especially if they have a career and no kids...whereas women are just seen as..old...and "what-is-wrong-with-her-why-isn't-she-married."
mens stocks rise with age, while womens decline. probably why so many women will tell younger women to not be so picky [idk about that line of reasoning but i have never heard of a man receiving such advice]
..and the men will date younger women who they think are more flexible and have less bag.gage
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SMH what the hell is wrong with an old Brotha cuffing a young broad?
Goddammit if I'm 50 years old, and these young heifers still choosing, Imma get me one too!
F*ck I look like getting me an old ass long-in-the-tooth broad my age when I could get me a tight young thang?! That's backwards hustlin'.
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Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 2:46am |
bk2la981 wrote:
starflower7 wrote:
bk2la981 wrote:
Positive K wrote:
Man if you a single 30 year old woman u should be open to dating men all the way up to 50.
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LOLOLOL. If I didn't have a sense of humor this would make me cry. I wasted the last 4 years on someone who I saw potential in but couldnt get his act together. Big mistake. I live in LA, its slim pickings here. On top of that I don't want to settle so I haven't found ” the one” yet. This guy is almost perfect but his age makes me think I'm settling. Btw, I'm not ugly at all. An 8, maybe more. and I myself look very young. everyone thinks I'm 22 by looking at me, after speaking to me they realize I'm older. |
LoL...how can you rate yourself though? Your rating of yourself isn't worth squat. |
I could go on about how I came to an 8 but I don't want to sound conceited, which I'm sure everyone thinks already. |
Please, please do...I won't judge. I'm just curious.
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