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Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

Man if you a single 30 year old woman u should be open to dating men all the way up to 50.





LOLOLOL. If I didn't have a sense of humor this would make me cry. I wasted the last 4 years on someone who I saw potential in but couldnt get his act together. Big mistake. I live in LA, its slim pickings here. On top of that I don't want to settle so I haven't found ” the one” yet. This guy is almost perfect but his age makes me think I'm settling. Btw, I'm not ugly at all. An 8, maybe more. and I myself look very young. everyone thinks I'm 22 by looking at me, after speaking to me they realize I'm older.

LoL...how can you rate yourself though? Your rating of yourself isn't worth squat.
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ouch!!!


it's not even an attempt to be super rude or to throw shade.  i am not even trying to read OP but many men...even if they are old...want to date women in their 20s. it's gross & unfair but in the dating world after a certain age, men have the upper hand. why? bc men are still seen as a prize as they age, are typically considered "better" looking and more attractive, especially if they have a career and no kids...whereas women are just seen as..old...and "what-is-wrong-with-her-why-isn't-she-married."

mens stocks rise with age, while womens decline. probably why so many women will tell younger women to not be so picky [idk about that line of reasoning but i have never heard of a man receiving such advice]

..and the men will date younger women who they think are more flexible and have less bag.gage


Edited by EPITOME - Nov 20 2012 at 1:17am
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My dad is twelve years older than my mom and they got married when she was 20 I think.
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:


Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

ouch!!!


it's not even an attempt to be super rude or to throw shade.  i am not even trying to read OP but many men...even if they are old...want to date women in their 20s. it's gross & unfair but in the dating world after a certain age, men have the upper hand. why? bc men are still seen as a prize as they age, are typically considered "better" looking and more attractive, especially if they have a career and no kids...whereas women are just seen as..old...and "what-is-wrong-with-her-why-isn't-she-married."

mens stocks rise with age, while womens decline. probably why so many women will tell younger women to not be so picky [idk about that line of reasoning but i have never heard of a man receiving such advice]

..and the men will date younger women who they think are more flexible and have less bag.gage





That's for men who are looking for arm candy who are probably going through a crisis or need a 20 something year old to make them feel better, hes not. He's really just looking for someone to settle down with...again.. Hes divorced. Hes confident enough to date a 40 year old woman if he liked her personality. I see and hear what women think of him and its all good.
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Lmao!

It's not weird but if u r insecure about it keep waiting around. Most women in their 30s have better luck with men in their 40s because a lot of mn in their 30s are really dating the 20s or later teens. Especially if they think they are a catch, they r looking for the youngins
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Originally posted by bk2la981 bk2la981 wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:


Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

ouch!!!


it's not even an attempt to be super rude or to throw shade.  i am not even trying to read OP but many men...even if they are old...want to date women in their 20s. it's gross & unfair but in the dating world after a certain age, men have the upper hand. why? bc men are still seen as a prize as they age, are typically considered "better" looking and more attractive, especially if they have a career and no kids...whereas women are just seen as..old...and "what-is-wrong-with-her-why-isn't-she-married."

mens stocks rise with age, while womens decline. probably why so many women will tell younger women to not be so picky [idk about that line of reasoning but i have never heard of a man receiving such advice]

..and the men will date younger women who they think are more flexible and have less bag.gage





That's for men who are looking for arm candy who are probably going through a crisis or need a 20 something year old to make them feel better, hes not. He's really just looking for someone to settle down with...again.. Hes divorced. Hes confident enough to date a 40 year old woman if he liked her personality. I see and hear what women think of him and its all good.
you sure he's not desperate?

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Originally posted by starflower7 starflower7 wrote:


Originally posted by bk2la981 bk2la981 wrote:

Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

Man if you a single 30 year old woman u should be open to dating men all the way up to 50.





LOLOLOL. If I didn't have a sense of humor this would make me cry. I wasted the last 4 years on someone who I saw potential in but couldnt get his act together. Big mistake. I live in LA, its slim pickings here. On top of that I don't want to settle so I haven't found ” the one” yet. This guy is almost perfect but his age makes me think I'm settling. Btw, I'm not ugly at all. An 8, maybe more. and I myself look very young. everyone thinks I'm 22 by looking at me, after speaking to me they realize I'm older.


LoL...how can you rate yourself though? Your rating of yourself isn't worth squat.

Ehhh. Kinda true, but when you garner a certain amount of attention you kinda know where you stand. I have no boobs worth speaking of so it must be the face. I meant an 8 in face, not overall. I could go on about how I came to an 8 but I don't want to sound conceited, which I'm sure everyone thinks already. I just said that so that PK didn't think I'm some dog that needs to hurry up and settle for anything I can get. If I wanted to settle I would he married already.
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by bk2la981 bk2la981 wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:


Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

ouch!!!


it's not even an attempt to be super rude or to throw shade.  i am not even trying to read OP but many men...even if they are old...want to date women in their 20s. it's gross & unfair but in the dating world after a certain age, men have the upper hand. why? bc men are still seen as a prize as they age, are typically considered "better" looking and more attractive, especially if they have a career and no kids...whereas women are just seen as..old...and "what-is-wrong-with-her-why-isn't-she-married."

mens stocks rise with age, while womens decline. probably why so many women will tell younger women to not be so picky [idk about that line of reasoning but i have never heard of a man receiving such advice]

..and the men will date younger women who they think are more flexible and have less bag.gage






That's for men who are looking for arm candy who are probably going through a crisis or need a 20 something year old to make them feel better, hes not. He's really just looking for someone to settle down with...again.. Hes divorced. Hes confident enough to date a 40 year old woman if he liked her personality. I see and hear what women think of him and its all good.
you sure he's not desperate?



lol, I don't know how to take that. No he's not. From what I heard from the people who work there, he has a lot of nice looking female admirers of all ages even younger than me. :-\

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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:


Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

ouch!!!


it's not even an attempt to be super rude or to throw shade.  i am not even trying to read OP but many men...even if they are old...want to date women in their 20s. it's gross & unfair but in the dating world after a certain age, men have the upper hand. why? bc men are still seen as a prize as they age, are typically considered "better" looking and more attractive, especially if they have a career and no kids...whereas women are just seen as..old...and "what-is-wrong-with-her-why-isn't-she-married."

mens stocks rise with age, while womens decline. probably why so many women will tell younger women to not be so picky [idk about that line of reasoning but i have never heard of a man receiving such advice]

..and the men will date younger women who they think are more flexible and have less bag.gage



Originally posted by Midwest_Da_Gawd Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:

SMH what the hell is wrong with an old Brotha cuffing a young broad?

Goddammit if I'm 50 years old, and these young heifers still choosing, Imma get me one too!

F*ck I look like getting me an old ass long-in-the-tooth broad my age when I could get me a tight young thang?! That's backwards hustlin'.
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Originally posted by bk2la981 bk2la981 wrote:

Originally posted by starflower7 starflower7 wrote:


Originally posted by bk2la981 bk2la981 wrote:

Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

Man if you a single 30 year old woman u should be open to dating men all the way up to 50.





LOLOLOL. If I didn't have a sense of humor this would make me cry. I wasted the last 4 years on someone who I saw potential in but couldnt get his act together. Big mistake. I live in LA, its slim pickings here. On top of that I don't want to settle so I haven't found ” the one” yet. This guy is almost perfect but his age makes me think I'm settling. Btw, I'm not ugly at all. An 8, maybe more. and I myself look very young. everyone thinks I'm 22 by looking at me, after speaking to me they realize I'm older.


LoL...how can you rate yourself though? Your rating of yourself isn't worth squat.
 

I could go on about how I came to an 8 but I don't want to sound conceited, which I'm sure everyone thinks already.  

Please, please do...I won't judge. I'm just curious.

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