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Originally posted by James Avery James Avery wrote:

its not that big of a gap as far as maturity goes since you're in your 30's already. i think you two should be able to have a good relationship if that's what you want.


If you were in your twenties I'd say dude would be way too old.
  I don't know about the relationship being "good"--still seems like there would be a bit of a generational gap...but go for it.
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Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

Most women should seriously date a man relatively older than her. 



I agree with this.
But I just couldn't go above a certain amount of years.

5 suits me fine
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From my experience men that old usually have major ba ge and talk as if majority of their life is behind them when the opposite is true.
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I personally wouldn't want to date someone would that age limit but you're over 30 and I feel that signifies a level of maturity and you should what you are doing. If you were in you're twenties then I would say be leery of the age difference.

What I would worry about is even though you're just a volunteer, he is essentially in a position of authority so if the relationship may not work out; maybe you would feel uncomfortable continuing volunteering there especially if you normally interact with each other  So be careful with that.....
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I couldn't do that old.
Ever.
My age gap is 1 year below and 5 above.
Anything else is very wierd to me..when I found out they are that old I get turned off.

My gap was 2 below and 4 above. I was a little turned off when he told me but I kept thinking ” well he doesn't look old” But the thought of it did repulse me for a second.
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Give it a shot.

 
My husband is 13 years older than I am, and we've been married for nearly 30 years. If nothing comes of it, it probably wouldn't hurt to get to know him.
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Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

Man if you a single 30 year old woman u should be open to dating men all the way up to 50.





LOLOLOL. If I didn't have a sense of humor this would make me cry. I wasted the last 4 years on someone who I saw potential in but couldnt get his act together. Big mistake. I live in LA, its slim pickings here. On top of that I don't want to settle so I haven't found ” the one” yet. This guy is almost perfect but his age makes me think I'm settling. Btw, I'm not ugly at all. An 8, maybe more. and I myself look very young. everyone thinks I'm 22 by looking at me, after speaking to me they realize I'm older.
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Positive K tells it as it is, damn
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Must be 18-25--young and cute for me. Tsuki cannot do middle-aged
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote bk2la981 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 12:59pm
Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

post a pic bk...I assume u from Brooklyn and moved to LA...if u was an 8 in BK that really means u between a 6-7 in LA. 



Lololol, I was a 10 in bk. So an 8 here and Ive gotten better with age too. I can't post a pic, work stuff....
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