Dating older men

ShadyLady wrote: starflower7 wrote: Bunnyahh wrote: bk2la, do you have any kid(s)? I must have missed your response OP? You seem to be mum on this subject. I don't think it much matters, though. Men will still mess with women with kids whether the man has any or not imo. If I remember correctly, she mentioned having a daughter in some thread. I could be wrong. I mix folks up all the time. And I agree Star, some men don't weigh kids in as a factor. One of my best guys friends, who is considered a good catch just became official with a woman with 2 kids from previous relationships. Of course, the rest of the boys are telling him to run for the hills, but he says he sees enough other qualities in her to not let that bother him.

bk2la981 wrote: Had a baby at 16. Wasn't planned, but I knew the toll it would take on my family and everyone who had such high hopes. Best decision of my life. Graduated college at 20 for starters and the rest is uphill from there..... I don't promote having babies out of wedlock but hey, if it happens...

There is one lady here who is in her late 40's and, no lie, she looks to be in her 20's. She looks GOOD. Women of colour tend to age gracefully anyways, but her entire style is very youthful.

Good memory Lady! I actually answered but when I pressed send it said I do not have permission to access the page. I did it 2x and then my internet did a force close. I got frustrated and was going to answer later. I can't post at all from my laptop. Hmm
Yes, I have a 15 year old. It has never been a problem or concern for anyone I was interested in or dating. I never needed anyone to take care of her or ”save” me.   

I'm just saying though...is valuable the word yall wanna throw around?
I hate to think that any human being's value goes down just because their getting older.
Yall sound stupid as hell.

would you mind playing stepmom to kids that age seeing how they are still very dependent