Black Hair Media Forum Homepage
BHM BHM BHM
Forum Home Forum Home > Lets Talk > Talk, Talk, and More Talk
  New Posts New Posts RSS Feed - Dating older men
  FAQ FAQ  Forum Search   Register Register  Login Login
Perfect Hair Collection
 

Dating older men

 
 Post Reply Post Reply Page  <1 1213141516 26>




The Best Human Hair Available with No Service Match

Author
 Rating: Topic Rating: 3 Votes, Average 2.33  Topic Search Topic Search  Topic Options Topic Options
Gkisses View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Jul 12 2008
Location: CrackaIsland
Status: Offline
Points: 373951
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (6) Thanks(6)   Quote Gkisses Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:12am
Originally posted by Elohim_is_Love Elohim_is_Love wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

What upper hand do men have in dating?
A lot of women desire us if we play our cards right, if we mature, wiser, smarter, look refine, etc, rather women get older society says their stock goes down. Sheesh, I would still marry Michelle Obama if she was single. Big smile



Getting older and looking older are two different things to me when it comes to women. A lot of men who think they have an upper hand are not wise(r), smart(er), refined etc. "Society" says a lot of shh but it doesn't make it true or a fact. Its not like there's women fighting to be with old men  unless his bank is holding true weight.


Back to Top
Sponsored Links


Back to Top
jonesable View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Oct 12 2010
Location: SC
Status: Offline
Points: 283321
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (6) Thanks(6)   Quote jonesable Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:13am
It is true that youthfulness is emphasized when it comes to women.
We even do it to ourselves.

Not just the appearance of youthfulness but the connotations of youth.

Edited by jonesable - Nov 20 2012 at 11:14am
Back to Top
Bunnyahh View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Aug 14 2009
Location: ♥ Cloud 9 ♥
Status: Offline
Points: 162021
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (4) Thanks(4)   Quote Bunnyahh Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:27am
bk2la, do you have any kid(s)?
Back to Top
afrokock View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: May 19 2008
Location: South London
Status: Offline
Points: 881330
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote afrokock Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:37am
Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:


Originally posted by Hello! Tsuki Hello! Tsuki wrote:

All the things you guys are saying about middle-aged women in the dating world makes me scared to get older!! Thank god I am 20

And I think a person can indeed measure their own attractiveness, especially if they get a certain amount of attention.






It aint that hard to date after ur 20
Unless:

  • you have multiple children
  • No career
  • Unstable financially
  • Horrible selection in men

or mentally unstable
Back to Top
Junior Jr View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Jun 26 2009
Location: ✡
Status: Offline
Points: 168312
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote Junior Jr Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:55am
this Brotha Midwest is dropping gems, b
 
jr.
Back to Top
EPITOME View Drop Down
Platinum Member
Platinum Member
Avatar

Joined: Feb 08 2007
Location: Escarpin
Status: Offline
Points: 446760
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote EPITOME Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 12:33pm
Originally posted by Midwest_Da_Gawd Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:


Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:


Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

ouch!!!


it's not even an attempt to be super rude or to throI don'tw shade.  i am not even trying to read OP but many men...even if they are old...want to date women in their 20s. it's gross & unfair but in the dating world after a certain age, men have the upper hand. why? bc men are still seen as a prize as they age, are typically considered "better" looking and more attractive, especially if they have a career and no kids...whereas women are just seen as..old...and "what-is-wrong-with-her-why-isn't-she-married."

mens stocks rise with age, while womens decline. probably why so many women will tell younger women to not be so picky [idk about that line of reasoning but i have never heard of a man receiving such advice]

..and the men will date younger women who they think are more flexible and have less bag.gage




Men ALWAYS have the upper hand in dating.

But because most young men don't know how to control their thirst, that makes womens feel empowered.


I disagree. vehemently
Back to Top
NARSAddict View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Nov 20 2009
Status: Offline
Points: 31142
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote NARSAddict Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 12:46pm
Not that big of a deal since you are in your 30s and no longer that wide-eyed ingenue.
Back to Top
babyk94 View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: May 22 2010
Location: Maryland
Status: Offline
Points: 33538
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote babyk94 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 12:46pm
Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

The tables surely do turn the older men and women get. I don't know why so many young dudes trip. As long as u are handling your business, staying in shape, etc. you will have a gang of options in your late 20s/early 30s. Just don't have a baby with these hoodrats and you good to go.
True
Back to Top
babyk94 View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: May 22 2010
Location: Maryland
Status: Offline
Points: 33538
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote babyk94 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 12:56pm
Originally posted by Elohim_is_Love Elohim_is_Love wrote:

Originally posted by babyk94 babyk94 wrote:

Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

The tables surely do turn the older men and women get. I don't know why so many young dudes trip. As long as u are handling your business, staying in shape, etc. you will have a gang of options in your late 20s/early 30s. Just don't have a baby with these hoodrats and you good to go.
True
Can I put a ring on you're finger babyk94 WinkBig smile
LOL EmbarrassedTongue
Back to Top
mrshairdo View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: May 21 2009
Location: your dreams
Status: Offline
Points: 146406
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote mrshairdo Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 1:00pm
Bee and Jay are 12 years apart and they seem to work Cool

i think i could do 12 yrs...but thats my max
Back to Top
Get Longer Healthier Faster Growing Hair
House of CB London
Get Healthier Stronger Longer Hair
The Elite Hair Care Sorority
Electric Cherry Hair
Hair Extensions Wefted Hair Wigs and More
Human Hair Wigs
Wefting Training
Dependable Quality Hair
Switch Up your Look with a protective Style
 Post Reply Post Reply Page  <1 1213141516 26>
  Share Topic   

Forum Jump Forum Permissions View Drop Down