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Gkisses 
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 Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:12am |
 Elohim_is_Love wrote:
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What upper hand do men have in dating? |
A lot of women desire us if we play our cards right, if we mature, wiser, smarter, look refine, etc, rather women get older society says their stock goes down. Sheesh, I would still marry Michelle Obama if she was single.  |
Getting older and looking older are two different things to me when it comes to women. A lot of men who think they have an upper hand are not wise(r), smart(er), refined etc. "Society" says a lot of shh but it doesn't make it true or a fact. Its not like there's women fighting to be with old men unless his bank is holding true weight.
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Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:13am |
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It is true that youthfulness is emphasized when it comes to women.
We even do it to ourselves.
Not just the appearance of youthfulness but the connotations of youth.
Edited by jonesable - Nov 20 2012 at 11:14am
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Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:27am |
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bk2la, do you have any kid(s)?
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Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:37am |
Gkisses wrote:
Hello! Tsuki wrote:
All the things you guys are saying about middle-aged women in the dating world makes me scared to get older!! Thank god I am 20
And I think a person can indeed measure their own attractiveness, especially if they get a certain amount of attention.
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It aint that hard to date after ur 20s
Unless:
- you have multiple children
- No career
- Unstable financially
- Horrible selection in men
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or mentally unstable
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Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 11:55am |
this Brotha Midwest is dropping gems, b 
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Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 12:33pm |
Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:
EPITOME wrote:
afrokock wrote:
ouch!!! |
it's not even an attempt to be super rude or to throI don'tw shade. i am not even trying to read OP but many men...even if they are old...want to date women in their 20s. it's gross & unfair but in the dating world after a certain age, men have the upper hand. why? bc men are still seen as a prize as they age, are typically considered "better" looking and more attractive, especially if they have a career and no kids...whereas women are just seen as..old...and "what-is-wrong-with-her-why-isn't-she-married."
mens stocks rise with age, while womens decline. probably why so many women will tell younger women to not be so picky [idk about that line of reasoning but i have never heard of a man receiving such advice]
..and the men will date younger women who they think are more flexible and have less bag.gage
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Men ALWAYS have the upper hand in dating.
But because most young men don't know how to control their thirst, that makes womens feel empowered.
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I disagree. vehemently
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Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 12:46pm |
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Not that big of a deal since you are in your 30s and no longer that wide-eyed ingenue.
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Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 12:46pm |
Positive K wrote:
The tables surely do turn the older men and women get. I don't know why so many young dudes trip. As long as u are handling your business, staying in shape, etc. you will have a gang of options in your late 20s/early 30s. Just don't have a baby with these hoodrats and you good to go. |
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Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 12:56pm |
LOL  
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Posted: Nov 20 2012 at 1:00pm |
Bee and Jay are 12 years apart and they seem to work 
i think i could do 12 yrs...but thats my max
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