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    Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 12:16pm
So I always thought dating a man 7 or more years older was nasty and weird. I thought the girl must have daddy issues, the guy is going through a midlife crisis... Too immature to get anyone his own age... Well I met this guy kinda through somewhere I do volunteer work. I noticed he was handsome the minute I met him. I didn't think anything else because he didn't seem interested in me. He texted me to tell me he had to cancel a meeting, things got a little flirty and he asked me out. We talked on the phone for hours, hes almost mr perfect and he's 12 years older than me... at first I thought he was joking because he doesnt look a day over 36. But hes 43... I feel a little weird. Thoughts?

2 months later after meeting he asked me out.

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I couldn't do that old.
Ever.
My age gap is 1 year below and 5 above.
Anything else is very wierd to me..when I found out they are that old I get turned off.
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how much money does he have?
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i can see an argument for someone who is like 18 dating a 38 yr old ( the daddy issues thing)
but if you're over a certain age... i don't think theres a real reason to shy away from it. 

i personally have no problem with women who are dating older guys, no matter what the age range (as long as its not underage). its just age, and if that pairing gives you a happy, healthy relationship...

go for it! 
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I couldn't do that old.
Ever.
My age gap is 1 year below and 5 4 above.
Anything else is very wierd to me..when I found out they are that old I get turned off.
 
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its not that big of a gap as far as maturity goes since you're in your 30's already. i think you two should be able to have a good relationship if that's what you want.
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But if it makes you happy, you shoud gve it a go
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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

how much money does he have?


Lol, hes well off but not rich by any means. Hes the director of the place I volunteer at. I really respect his career. Its what I want to do as a career. Has his own house...
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But if you really like him and can get over the age...I say go for it
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honestly, he sounds like a good wholesome guy. i think after a while you might get over how old he is. or maybe it might become a plus for you. who knows. 
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