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This generation seems to think dating includes sex......you should date multiple people until you and the one you would like to see exclusively decide to........I only really see this from women.......
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

when i'm single i date a few ppl until one stands out or the others start getting on my nerves. 
Do they know you are dating other people too?
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I am currently "dating" two people, just so happens I met them two day apart, it's only been about a month, and were still getting to know each other, so I see no problems. If feelings start getting involved with one it the other, I would let the other one know what the deal was.
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When I'm single, I'm usually talking to multiple people at a time.
It rarely goes beyond talking unless I actually want to set aside time for someone.

I cut everybody else loose once things take a more serious turn or have the "What are we?" talk with someone.


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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote BBpants Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 14 2013 at 10:42pm
lol I'm talking to a couple people (four lol) ...I usually narrow it down when I develop feeling for one of them and slowly cut the rest off.
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Dating >1 person is more efficient.
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i never understood the dating thing (talking to more than one person at a time)

cause people here are quick to say someones actually going out when they're just 'talking' and it gets around, etc

so i usually just talk to one person.
i just feel weird. guess i dont understand dating lol

then itll be foolish to put my energy into this one person and they're out talking to more than 1, i cant win Cry


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It's about having options..
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote Lady ICE Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 14 2013 at 11:42pm
...i've never done this before.Geek

reminds me of a song from the 90s.
if i only could decided, but i cant make up my mind
my problem is im sooo in love with 2.

i dont wanna push it i dont wanna fight but this feeling
keeps me up all nighttt..

haha. yeah..thats my only input Sleepy
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

This generation seems to think dating includes sex......you should date multiple people until you and the one you would like to see exclusively decide to........I only really see this from women.......

I agree. In the past, it was just called 'talking to' which implied that it was getting to know each other and others, pressure free, no sex implied, going out. I notice that when the word 'dating' is used, a situation involving sex usually seems to be interpreted by a lot of people.
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