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About 5 years ago, my sister passed away.  My mom's MARRIED pastor came to the house to pray with the family.  The pastor almost passed out when he walked in b/c he saw my oldest sister there who he tried to talk to and even asked her to meet him @ a hotel for drinks.  He had no idea she was my mother's daughter.  We told my mother the story & she was so shocked.

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Originally posted by FloStar FloStar wrote:

Originally posted by Miss Kitty Miss Kitty wrote:

Ok, see I was already thinking most of the things posted on here.  So I'm just going to leave it alone.


Awww.. I don't know...
But lemme ask...
Do you reaalllyyyy like him or you just think he's handsome and you're attracted to him?
Or like is he the ideal person you'd like to be with?

 
I just think he's handsome. I don't know much about him. I do know that hes 30 and single. I have friends that attend that church, but I havent said anything to them about him. Basically, I'm just curious.
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i have dated pastors in the past, never with the intent to have a serious relationship tho lol. My sis dated/married a pastor but that was her dream so she is quite happy as a first lady.

(dad was a pastor/bishop all my life so i knew early on that i would never want to be seriously involved with one--to many responsibilities)

eta: there are quite a few pastors in my family.


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Originally posted by Miss Kitty Miss Kitty wrote:

I just think he's handsome. I don't know much about him. I do know that hes 30 and single. I have friends that attend that church, but I havent said anything to them about him. Basically, I'm just curious.


Oh, I understand
DON'T tell your friends that attend the same church.
They could embarass you

But yeah, I think you should just start by smiling and saying hello.

That's how I started talking to my pastor..
Actually.. HE said hello to me the first time he saw me and since then we say hi and talk briefly when we get the chance.
He's so nice to meEmbarrassed
 
Also, any spiritual related problems whatsoever that you're having/have.. Go to him and from there you guys can actually become closer and you'll learn more about him.
I do this everytime (I actually ask him sincerely though.. not JUST because I wanna talk to him Tongue)
Matter of fact.. Everytime he sees me coming to him he knows what time it is and starts smiling like crazy lol.

It's a veryyy slow process so you kinda have to be patient about it... Things won't happen straight away.
And I also think you should pray about it.

I say go for it because you never know Wink
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Originally posted by sxcnodoubt sxcnodoubt wrote:

About 5 years ago, my sister passed away.  My mom's MARRIED pastor came to the house to pray with the family.  The pastor almost passed out when he walked in b/c he saw my oldest sister there who he tried to talk to and even asked her to meet him @ a hotel for drinks.  He had no idea she was my mother's daughter.  We told my mother the story & she was so shocked.

As my grandmother said "the devil runs rampid in the church, what better way to get a flock than capture their Shepard ?"
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Originally posted by PurpleHaze PurpleHaze wrote:

i have dated pastors in the past, never with the intent to have a serious relationship tho lol. My sis dated/married a pastor but that was her dream so she is quite happy as a first lady.

(dad was a pastor/bishop all my life so i knew early on that i would never want to be seriously involved with one--to many responsibilities)

eta: there are quite a few pastors in my family.

Mine too. Ny great grandfather was a pastor so many of my aunts are in the ministry themselves. So we actually have alot of first husbands.LOL
My grandmother is studying to be ordained now, she gives sermons at the nursing homes now.
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Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

Originally posted by ilovelife ilovelife wrote:

ive dated several pastors before some were single the other 2 were "married"
but anyways they aight, wasnt my cup of tea though
i felt kind of grimey messing with men who are supposed to be the sheppard of a flock while they steady blowing my back out.
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what the?? u just never know who people really are i guess lol
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Originally posted by ilovelife ilovelife wrote:

ive dated several pastors before some were single the other 2 were "married"
but anyways they aight, wasnt my cup of tea though
i felt kind of grimey messing with men who are supposed to be the sheppard of a flock while they steady blowing my back out.


This.Post.Was.Awesome.
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Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

Originally posted by ilovelife ilovelife wrote:

ive dated several pastors before some were single the other 2 were "married"
but anyways they aight, wasnt my cup of tea though
i felt kind of grimey messing with men who are supposed to be the sheppard of a flock while they steady blowing my back out.


This.Post.Was.Awesome.


  Embarrassed  Yeah it made me giggle and then I had to say a little apology prayer.  LOL 
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