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A friend of mine meet one and they started dating and it turned out to be a mess.
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I read an article in an old Essence where a pastor was saying that he wants to be treated like any other guy amd not like a shephard or something by his date. He said that he will meet a lady and will avoid discussing his line of work because as soon as he does, she stiffens up and starts discussing scriptures and stops being fun & carefree.
 
The only pastor I have ever met was in a strip club and he said rather lewd stuff to me and I cussed him out like the heathen that I am so keep in mind that men are men and that if you do ever date a pastor, dont have false expectations.
 
Also, be careful about haveing a crush on a pastor b/c they get more lascivious tail thrown their way than men in uniform, politicians, and any other man with a role of power.
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Originally posted by glamrock glamrock wrote:

I read an article in an old Essence where a pastor was saying that he wants to be treated like any other guy amd not like a shephard or something by his date. He said that he will meet a lady and will avoid discussing his line of work because as soon as he does, she stiffens up and starts discussing scriptures and stops being fun & carefree.
 
The only pastor I have ever met was in a strip club and he said rather lewd stuff to me and I cussed him out like the heathen that I am so keep in mind that men are men and that if you do ever date a pastor, dont have false expectations.
 
Also, be careful about having a crush on a pastor b/c they get more lascivious tail thrown their way than men in uniform, politicians, and any other man with a role of power.
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Originally posted by glamrock glamrock wrote:

I read an article in an old Essence where a pastor was saying that he wants to be treated like any other guy amd not like a shephard or something by his date. He said that he will meet a lady and will avoid discussing his line of work because as soon as he does, she stiffens up and starts discussing scriptures and stops being fun & carefree.
 
The only pastor I have ever met was in a strip club and he said rather lewd stuff to me and I cussed him out like the heathen that I am so keep in mind that men are men and that if you do ever date a pastor, dont have false expectations.
 
Also, be careful about haveing a crush on a pastor b/c they get more lascivious tail thrown their way than men in uniform, politicians, and any other man with a role of power.


I agree with that.
But I can't really blame women who get stiff about his line of work LOL... It'll be very nerve-racking because you don't want to say the wrong thing.

&& I agree women DO throw themselves at them..
I actuallly noticed that some lustful/wicked women actually prefer pastors or leaders of a church.. Something about wanting to touch God's annointed.

However, I don't think it's wrong to have a crush on a pastor... If he's single and your intentions aren't bad/lustful then I don't see the problem... I think it's normal.. We ARE human.

I'm actually in the same position myself but I don't really know how to go about it and don't want to make a fool of myself.LOL
So OP I totally understand what you're going through.


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Be prepared to fight bishes off. Some women throw themselves at pastors.
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Originally posted by glamrock glamrock wrote:

I read an article in an old Essence where a pastor was saying that he wants to be treated like any other guy amd not like a shephard or something by his date. He said that he will meet a lady and will avoid discussing his line of work because as soon as he does, she stiffens up and starts discussing scriptures and stops being fun & carefree.
 
The only pastor I have ever met was in a strip club and he said rather lewd stuff to me and I cussed him out like the heathen that I am so keep in mind that men are men and that if you do ever date a pastor, dont have false expectations.
 
Also, be careful about haveing a crush on a pastor b/c they get more lascivious tail thrown their way than men in uniform, politicians, and any other man with a role of power.
 
I read that article too, very informative.
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Ok, see I was already thinking most of the things posted on here.  So I'm just going to leave it alone.
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Originally posted by Miss Kitty Miss Kitty wrote:

Ok, see I was already thinking most of the things posted on here.  So I'm just going to leave it alone.


Awww.. I don't know...
But lemme ask...
Do you reaalllyyyy like him or you just think he's handsome and you're attracted to him?
Or like is he the ideal person you'd like to be with?

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Bumping for more stories of women that have dated pastors.
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^^ Looool me too!!

Glam, can you please post the article by Essence.. I'd really like to read it.
Thanks


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