| Bmcduffie wrote:|
Yes, she should be married, but why down her because her birth control failed? Birth control does fail. My sister in law's BC pills failed after 10 years. Life happens, babies happen...Stop judging people. I am glad that I found a thread of ladies that have nothing better to do than scope out other women's lives and down them. Very sad...If we were all meant to look the same, act the same, accomplish the same things, do the same things...how boring of an existence would that be, huh? I think it would be very boring. Some women are very fertile because that is how God made them. Even if she was living with her family, who cares! In some other countries 2 or even 3 generations might live at home...Okay, she is young, tacky, stupid?? what else? That is what is wrong with us, we tear each other down and then wonder why it is hard for the black race to stay up!!
Do you really believe that's what is wrong w/us? Not applauding and encouraging REPEATED "tacky & stupid" behavior?
I'm sorry, I think that's backwards. Maybe if more of OUR ppl weren't so supportive of the " tacky & stupid" behavior and held our ppl to a higher standard, our ppl wouldn't be so inclined to repeat the same "tacky & stupid" behavior.
It's the "it's ok, you made a mistake, no one is perfect..oh wait, you did it again?..oh, it's ok, ppl shouldn't judge you, no one is perfect, ...oh, but wait..you did it a third time..but, it's ok..."
And then we're furious when someone of another race says our ppl encourage failure..*smirk*
But carry on..I'm just a judgemental woman that is sick of OUR ppl being so content and comfortable w/living up to every negative stereotype about us..
We don't have to tear each other down. Some of us do a pretty good job at self destruction.