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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I do think its dumb of him not to seek tests sooner.

But he know she was creepin. If he can't trust her to be faithful, he can't trust that she'd use protection.
He was a fool in love, Po Thang.
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:



And mama a Thot.



Jones...please...stahp. Just stahp. I hate it, and I cant take it.
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20th century, 1st world problems....
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Originally posted by bunzaveli bunzaveli wrote:

Originally posted by HaitianDiva64 HaitianDiva64 wrote:

it makes sense 16 and 14 years he is all they've known.  once you take responsibility it's yours
all they've known thru fraud

This. I mean I feel bad for the kids and all but they are not his kids. He should not be forced to support them if he doesn't want to.  It should be his choice if he continues to support them. Thats a lot of kids to pay support for too. He will probably be giving up half of his paychecks for the next few years. I think the child support laws are unfair to men sometimes. 
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if you raise a child for 16 years and a DNA test changes how you feel/care for them, you are not a man. all of that.
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yall are making this about the mam getting paid, but what about the kids? a whole life and all of a sudden your dad doesn't want to take care of you anymore? thats low.
it's a complicated situation for sure and the mom shouldnt "win" but 16 years is a long ass time. if you raised kids as your own, you are obligated to and responsible for them.
and it shouldn't need to be court mandated.

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Originally posted by MzCaliky MzCaliky wrote:

I see this in the court all the time and I am fine with it. If he would have made a reasonable effort to find out if the kids were his before so much time has passed then he made the choice to be their parent. He knew the mother cheated so when he found that out is when the dna should have been tested not when they were divorcing. He also probably should have had a suspicion they might not be his but he wanted to be with his wife so bad he chose to ignore it all. 




Should of, would of, could of...


At the end of the day these kids have other fathers and they are responsible for taking care of them. The trifling mom needs to go on maury and track them down. Being naive doesn't make him a bad person just a little stupid at the moment.


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Originally posted by beebeexx beebeexx wrote:

yall are making this about the mam getting paid, but what about the kids? a whole life and all of a sudden your dad doesn't want to take care of you anymore? thats low.
it's a complicated situation for sure and the mom shouldnt "win" but 16 years is a long ass time. if you raised kids as your own, you are obligated to and responsible for them.
and it shouldn't need to be court mandated.

 
Yeah, it doesn't change how he feels about them, but at the end of the day those other fathers should be providing for "their" children. That's the logic of it.
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Originally posted by patternsandtexture patternsandtexture wrote:

Originally posted by beebeexx beebeexx wrote:

yall are making this about the mam getting paid, but what about the kids? a whole life and all of a sudden your dad doesn't want to take care of you anymore? thats low.
it's a complicated situation for sure and the mom shouldnt "win" but 16 years is a long ass time. if you raised kids as your own, you are obligated to and responsible for them.
and it shouldn't need to be court mandated.

 
Yeah, it doesn't change how he feels about them, but at the end of the day those other fathers should be providing for "their" children. That's the logic of it.


he is their father. he should continue providing for them. how can you care and want whats best for them if you want to withdraw any type of support from them?
what kind of logic is "i love you just the same but im not gonna provide for you"
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