Get in that bathroom mirror with a pair of hair shears and get to snippin' missy lol
Have hair elastics and hair clips so you can section hair off. I put hair into 4 sections first. Starting with 1 section, chop off the obvious relaxed parts in one big chop, then section the hair in that into a small part(like you're flat ironing), spray each one with water to see the difference between natural and relaxed and then snip. You can do the back of your hair in the bathroom mirror too. After you're done, wash and condition and voila!
And make sure you post pics.