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Originally posted by Positive K Positive K wrote:

Is this dude black?

No he is Persian-American.
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I'm sorry OP but this guy doesnt like you. Move on. No man is gonna intentionally break and not make eye contact with a woman he has some interest in. I dont even think its a matter of him feeling neutral to you, this dude do not like you periodConfused
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I'm sorry OP but this guy doesnt like you. Move
on. No man is gonna intentionally break and not make eye contact with a
woman he has some interest in. I dont even think its a matter of him
feeling neutral to you, this dude do not like you periodConfused




Thank you for your opinion. We'll see how things go...
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I can't help liking him, but of course I am keeping my options open...
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Originally posted by BoutThatLife BoutThatLife wrote:

I'm sorry OP but this guy doesnt like you. Move on. No man is gonna intentionally break and not make eye contact with a woman he has some interest in. I dont even think its a matter of him feeling neutral to you, this dude do not like you periodConfused
Some guys can be shy tho... I actually had a guy that was too shy to talk to me because he felt like he was not good enough for me last semester and the truth came out from one of his friends this semester that I knew. I was wondering why he was always nervous around me.  Sometime guys can be extremely shy to approach women they think that is out of their lead...

Theres nothing wrong with you OP telling the dude hi or making small convo. But let him do the rest of the work.  Or you can even be friends with him first


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^ Appreciate your advice. I don't want to be naive but I do agree that some guys may be shy. I asked my father his opinion and the first thing he said was it sounds like he is shy. My dad is not one to sugar coat things, he's a man's man and believes in traditional male/female roles in relationships. But he said he knows what it's like to feel too intimidated by a woman to approach her. I definitely plan on introducing myself to this guy, just waiting for the right opportunity. At least then I'll know more where he stands before deciding to just give up before I even get to know him.
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Umm forget about him. You are absolutely wasting your time on a guy .. if he can't figure out a way to walk across the hall and talk to you. DUH!
 
This guy might find you 'attractive' .. but finding you attractive is not the same thing as being 'interested' in you. GUYS ARE NOT SHY! That is what (young) women tell themselves when they like a guy and he does not ask her out. This guy is not interested in you - period.
 
You already said it best when you said '.. I don't want to make excuses for him because he is a grown ass man that should be capable of going after what he wants.,;;' So take you own advice.
 
I repeat .. forget about him and don't you DARE approach him and introduce yourself to him or in anyway initialte contact. You are supposed to attract men .. so that THEY will initiate a conversation with you.Confused
 
If you do approach him first  .. you will absolutely screw up the balance of power between the two of you .. and you will NEVER get that back.
 
You know what guys think when you hit on THEM? They think .. 'What's wrong with this girl? I am surprised this beautiful girl is coming to ME. This is because beautiful women are beating the guys off with a stick ... NOT HITTING on guys themselves Shocked unless .. they don't know they are beautiful (have self esteem issues) , they want sex right now (read freak!) so nowtrhey know you are gonna be easy, they are desparate (read lonely) or .... they are psycho (watch out)!
 
Beautiful women (INSIDE AND OUT)  do not chase men and your finding an excuse talk to him ... means you are chasing him.This will SURELY lower his value for you.Dead
 
Move on.
 
DO NOT 'moon' over men! Men are supposed to be mooning OVER YOU!  DUh!


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Originally posted by Becky Becky wrote:

Umm forget about him. You are absolutely wasting your time on a guy .. if he can't figure out a way to walk across the hall and talk to you. DUH!
 

This guy might find you 'attractive' .. but finding you attractive is not the same thing as being 'interested' in you. GUYS ARE NOT SHY! That is what (young) women tell themselves when they like a guy and he does not ask her out. This guy is not interested in you - period.

 

You already said it best when you said '.. I don't want to make excuses for him because he is a grown ass man that should be capable of going after what he wants.,;;' So take you own advice.

 

I repeat .. forget about him and don't you DARE approach him and introduce yourself to him or in anyway initialte contact. You are supposed to attract men .. so that THEY will initiate a conversation with you.Confused

 

If you do approach him first  .. you will absolutely screw up the balance of power between the two of you .. and you will NEVER get that back.

 

You know what guys think when you hit on THEM? They think .. 'What's wrong with this girl? I am surprised this beautiful girl is coming to ME. This is because beautiful women are beating the guys off with a stick ... NOT HITTING on guys themselves Shocked unless .. they don't know they are beautiful (have self esteem issues) , they want sex right now (read freak!) so nowtrhey know you are gonna be easy, they are desparate (read lonely) or .... they are psycho (watch out)!

 

Beautiful women (INSIDE AND OUT)  do not chase men and your finding an excuse talk to him ... means you are chasing him.This will SURELY lower his value for you.Dead

 

Move on.

 

DO NOT 'moon' over men! Men are supposed to be mooning OVER YOU!  DUh!
I respect your opinion but I definitely don't agree that initiating conversation with a man is the same as chasing him. It's just human interaction, nothing wrong with that. As long as you're doing it in a friendly/casual way and not in a thirsty or desperate way
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Forget about him.  
I introduced myself to this guy thinking he was shy (he would always stare at me).  Just told him my name and asked about his major.
Just. don't. do. it.  I regret doing this and this happened a year ago.  Probably flipped the roles forever.  The guy was not shy at all.  He just wasn't into me because he would talk to girls...just not me.  Now I just ignore him.
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Originally posted by Becky Becky wrote:

Umm forget about him. You are absolutely wasting your time on a guy .. if he can't figure out a way to walk across the hall and talk to you. DUH!
 
This guy might find you 'attractive' .. but finding you attractive is not the same thing as being 'interested' in you. GUYS ARE NOT SHY! That is what (young) women tell themselves when they like a guy and he does not ask her out. This guy is not interested in you - period.
 
You already said it best when you said '.. I don't want to make excuses for him because he is a grown ass man that should be capable of going after what he wants.,;;' So take you own advice.
 
I repeat .. forget about him and don't you DARE approach him and introduce yourself to him or in anyway initiate contact. You are supposed to attract men .. so that THEY will initiate a conversation with you.Confused
 
If you do approach him first  .. you will absolutely screw up the balance of power between the two of you .. and you will NEVER get that back.
 
You know what guys think when you hit on THEM? They think .. 'What's wrong with this girl? I am surprised this beautiful girl is coming to ME. This is because beautiful women are beating the guys off with a stick ... NOT HITTING on guys themselves Shocked unless .. they don't know they are beautiful (have self esteem issues) , they want sex right now (read freak!) so now they know you are gonna be easy, they are desperate (read lonely) or .... they are psycho (watch out)!
 
Beautiful women (INSIDE AND OUT)  do not chase men and your finding an excuse talk to him ... means you are chasing him.This will SURELY lower his value for you.Dead
 
Move on.
 
DO NOT 'moon' over men! Men are supposed to be mooning OVER YOU!  DUh!
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