Umm forget about him. You are absolutely wasting your time on a guy .. if he can't figure out a way to walk across the hall and talk to you. DUH!
This guy might find you 'attractive' .. but finding you attractive is not the same thing as being 'interested' in you. GUYS ARE NOT SHY! That is what (young) women tell themselves when they like a guy and he does not ask her out. This guy is not interested in you - period.
You already said it best when you said '.. I don't want to make excuses for him because he is a grown ass man that should be capable of going after what he wants.,;;' So take you own advice.
I repeat .. forget about him and don't you DARE approach him and introduce yourself to him or in anyway initialte contact. You are supposed to attract
men .. so that THEY will initiate a conversation with you
If you do approach him first .. you will absolutely screw up the balance of power between the two of you .. and you will NEVER get that back.
You know what guys think when you hit on THEM?
They think .. 'What's wrong with this girl? I am surprised this beautiful girl is coming to ME. This is because beautiful women are beating the guys off with a stick ... NOT HITTING on guys themselves
unless .. they don't know they are beautiful (have self esteem issues) , they want sex right now (read freak!) so nowtrhey know you are gonna be easy, they are desparate (read lonely) or .... they are psycho (watch out)!
Beautiful women (INSIDE AND OUT) do not chase men and your finding an excuse talk to him ... means you are chasing him.This will SURELY lower his value for you.
DO NOT 'moon' over men! Men are supposed to be mooning OVER YOU! DUh!
Edited by Becky - Nov 22 2012 at 5:08pm