I think most people want a 'relationship'.
That's not the problem - but you must be specific. Do you want a good relationship or a bad relationship?
But if you want a relationship to the point that you throw common sense and self esteem out of the window ... then you will end up in a bad relationship and IMO a bad relationship is worse than .. no relationship at all.
If you want a good relationship .. then you have to get out there BUT you have to be SELECTIVE as to the type of guys you get involved with.
If they are unemployed, living with their mama, or staying in odd places, lie about all sorts of stuff, can't afford to buy you coffee, are trying to pressure you into sex after seeing you a couple of times (wait 3 months), say little put downs to you, try to tell you what to do, get mad over every little bitty thing, they look like thugs with the thug language, friends and lifestyle ... and the list goes on .... you need to take a pass on these losers as they will never give you a good and healthy relationship.
Most single guys are like this in some way ... so you have to have enough common sense and self-esteem to not get involved with them to begin with.
Hold out for that top 10%.
Edited by Printer_Ink - May 25 2013 at 4:57am